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You played games with your girlfriend and now you are in the bedroom. The missionary position is a simple place to start. She lies on her back. He lies on top between her legs facing her. You can see faces and kiss easily. Here are eight variations. They use different leg positions and speeds. Most need nothing extra. Pay attention to how it feels. Tell your partner what you want. Try them one at a time to see what you both like.
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She lies on her back on the bed. Open your legs wide. He gets on top and enters you. Look at each other in the eyes. Move your hips together with his movements. Feel the full body contact.
Pro-Tip
Start out slow for the first few minutes. Use words to tell him if you want changes in speed or depth. This helps you both enjoy it more.
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Kiss on the neck and shoulders while you move together in rhythm.
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Use the basic position but keep every movement slow and deliberate. He enters then pauses for several seconds. Concentrate on the contact and your breathing patterns. This makes the session last longer.
Pro-Tip
Use this version when you have plenty of time. Notice the small feelings that you usually overlook in faster sex.
Spicy Twist
Talk quietly about what part feels best at that moment to guide each other.
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Stay in missionary and focus on kissing the whole time. Kiss the lips, neck, and chest area. Keep your faces close together. Continue the hip movements at a steady rate without stopping the kisses.
Pro-Tip
Look at each other in the eyes when you pause the kissing. This keeps the focus on each other.
Spicy Twist
Gently bite the lower lip or earlobe in between kisses for a surprise.
Action
While in the missionary position one of you moves hips in a circular motion. He can stay still or do circles too. Switch who does the circling. This stimulates different spots inside.
Pro-Tip
Practice the circle movement on your own first. It helps you learn control and builds strength in the right muscles.
Spicy Twist
Touch and rub each other's chests while doing the circles.
Final Tip
Pick one variation to try after your next game. Change things until it feels right. Missionary has room for these adjustments. Keep trying new ones when you want variety.
Common Questions
The woman lies on her back. The man is on top between her legs facing her. It allows eye contact and kissing.
Yes for most couples. Avoid putting weight on the stomach if pregnant. Always ask if it feels good.
Use a pillow under the hips. Change the speed of movements. Add touching with hands in sensitive areas.
