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Many couples look for ways to change their routine at home. These eight positions work in different rooms like the kitchen or living room. You can follow the steps exactly or adjust them to fit your space. Most require no tools or cost. Talk to your partner about what feels good. Start slow with any new position. This keeps things safe for both of you.
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Clear items off your kitchen counter. Have your partner sit on the edge facing you. Stand between their legs. Hold their hips or back while you move. The counter height lets you stand straight. Adjust your stance until it feels right.
Pro-Tip
Make sure the counter is strong enough. Have a towel ready to clean up after.
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Try this position right after you make a meal together.
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Sit on the living room couch. Your partner sits on your lap facing you. They move up and down or rock back and forth. The cushions make it comfortable for longer sessions.
Pro-Tip
Take off the couch pillows if they block movement.
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Start during a TV show and pause it.
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Lay a blanket on the floor. One partner lies on their back. The other gets on top facing them. Place a pillow under the lower back for support. Move in a steady rhythm.
Pro-Tip
Pick a clean area of the floor away from furniture.
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Play soft music in the background.
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Sit on a kitchen or dining chair. Your partner straddles you facing forward or backward. They control the up and down motion while you hold them steady. Keep your feet planted.
Pro-Tip
Use a chair without wheels or arms for best results.
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Do it at the kitchen table after breakfast.
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Lie on your side on the couch. Your partner lies behind you in the same direction. They enter from behind while you both stay relaxed. This works for slow movements.
Pro-Tip
This position works well when you want something easy and close.
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Try it while watching the news in the evening.
Final Tip
Pick a few of these positions to try this week. See which ones you both like best. Adjust them to fit your home and preferences. Communicate during the process to make sure everything feels right.
Common Questions
The spoon position on the couch is simple. It does not require much strength or flexibility from either person.
Put a pillow under the hips to change the angle. It makes some positions more comfortable and effective.
Talk to your partner before trying anything new. Stop right away if it hurts. Check that all surfaces are stable.
