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Newlywed couple in man on top position with pillow for support on their bed.

Positions for Newlywed Couples

Newlyweds have many things to learn about each other. These eight positions offer simple ways to spend time in bed. They range from basic to more involved. You can do them all at home. Focus on how your bodies move together. Watch your partner for signs of what feels good. A pillow can adjust height in one or two. Discuss preferences before and after. Start with familiar ones. Add new ones later. This helps you develop good routines.

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1. Man on Top

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Action

She lies on her back with knees bent and feet flat on the bed. He gets between her legs and faces her. He holds himself up on his elbows. He enters her and they move their hips together in a matching rhythm. They keep close for kisses and eye contact the whole time.

Pro-Tip

This position works well for couples just starting out because it feels natural. Keep the pace slow at the beginning. Ask each other if the angle or speed needs any adjustment to feel better.

Spicy Twist

Put a pillow under her hips to raise the angle. She can wrap her legs around his body. This allows for different movements and sensations.

2. Woman on Top

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Action

He lies on his back on the bed. She climbs on top and faces him. She straddles his hips and guides him inside her. She moves her hips in the way that feels best to her. He can place his hands on her hips or waist to help her.

Pro-Tip

The woman has control over the speed and depth in this position. She can experiment with different movements. The man should let her know what he likes to see and feel from below.

Spicy Twist

She turns around to face his feet instead. She continues the hip movements while he has a different view. He can reach out to touch her body.

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4. Spooning

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Action

You both lie on your sides in the same direction. He positions himself behind her body. She lifts her top leg slightly to allow entry. He holds her close with one arm. They make small movements while staying in this spoon position.

Pro-Tip

It requires less energy than other positions so it is good for when you are tired. You can stay holding each other for a long time after. Use it for morning sessions.

Spicy Twist

She can lift her leg higher to allow him to go deeper. He can use his hand to touch her body at the same time.

5. Lotus

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Action

The man sits on the bed with his legs crossed. The woman sits on his lap facing him. She wraps her legs around his waist. They hold each other with their arms. They rock their hips together in a slow and close manner.

Pro-Tip

Sit in this position for longer periods to enjoy the closeness. You can talk or just look at each other without much movement. It helps you feel tuned to your partner.

Spicy Twist

She can move her hips in small circles instead of rocking. He can kiss her neck and chest area while they stay wrapped together.

7. Wall Support

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Action

She stands and faces the wall. She puts both hands on the wall for balance. He stands behind her. He lifts one of her legs and holds it. He enters from behind and they move carefully in the standing position.

Pro-Tip

This one is useful when you do not have time to get into bed. It can be done in the shower or against a door. Take turns holding the leg up.

Spicy Twist

She can turn around to face him. He can try to lift both legs if he is strong enough. They hold each other tightly.

Final Tip

Pick a few of these positions to try over the next week. Pay attention to which ones you both enjoy the most. Give feedback to each other after each time. This will help you build a set of favorites for your regular routine.

Common Questions

Which positions help you stay close?

Man on top and lotus position allow you to face each other. You maintain eye contact and can kiss easily during the activity.

How do you stay comfortable during these positions?

Go at a pace that suits both of you. Use a pillow for support under the hips if the angle feels off. Communicate any discomfort right away.

Which positions are good for short times together?

Wall support and spooning do not require much time to set up. They can happen quickly but still feel satisfying for both partners.