Date ideas
You just got married. Now you have private time to explore what you both enjoy. The positions listed here are basic and do not need any special equipment except in a couple cases. They range from face to face contact to ones where one person has more control. Talk about each one before you try it. Go slow and make adjustments as you go. This is a good way to learn your partner's preferences in the early days of marriage.
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Lie on your back while your partner positions themselves on top facing you. You can wrap your legs around their waist. This allows good eye contact and kissing. Move your bodies in rhythm together.
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Place a pillow under your hips to lift them slightly. This improves the angle for both of you.
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Wrap your arms around their back and pull them closer with each movement to increase the feeling of closeness.
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Both lie on your sides in the same direction. The partner behind enters from that position. It feels cozy and does not require much energy. You can stay in this position for a long time.
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The front partner should bend their knees slightly to help with alignment and comfort.
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The back partner can wrap one arm around and touch the front partner while continuing to move.
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Have your partner lie on their back. Straddle them facing forward and lower yourself onto them. You set the pace and depth of movement. Use your thighs to control how fast you go.
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Place your hands on their chest or shoulders to help with balance and leverage.
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Lean back and support yourself with your hands on their legs for a different sensation.
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Sit facing each other on the bed. Wrap your legs around your partner's back. Hold each other close with your arms. Rock back and forth gently rather than using big motions.
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Make sure you are both comfortable because changing position from here can be tricky.
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Kiss and touch each others faces and necks the entire time you move together.
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Your partner lies on their back. You face away from them and straddle their hips. Lower yourself down and start moving. This gives them a view of your back and changes the angle.
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Start slow until you find a rhythm that works for your legs and knees.
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Lean forward and rest on your elbows or hands to alter the feeling.
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Lie on your back near the edge of the bed. Raise your legs and rest them on your partner's shoulders. They stand or kneel in front of you. This position allows for deeper movement.
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Communicate constantly because the depth can feel intense at first for both people.
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Have them hold your feet or ankles instead of just resting legs on shoulders.
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Get on your hands and knees on the bed. Your partner gets behind you on their knees. They enter from the back. You can adjust by lowering to your elbows or changing knee position.
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Use your hand or ask them to reach around for additional stimulation at the same time.
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Try this position in front of a mirror if you have one nearby to watch.
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Pick one or two positions to try this week. See which ones you both enjoy most. Keep communicating as you learn more about what feels good for each of you.
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Missionary and spooning are good choices for beginners. They are familiar and let you stay close. Start with those and then try others as you gain confidence.
Talk about the position first. Move slowly and check in with your partner. Stop if it feels uncomfortable. Add lubrication to make things easier if needed.
Add kissing and touching. Change speeds or angles slightly. Talk afterwards about what you liked. This keeps things interesting without pressure.
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