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You know that moment when sex feels routine. The same thing every time. These eight positions from the Kama Sutra give you new ways to move with your partner. They let you face each other and change angles. Try them one at a time. A pillow can help with comfort in a couple of them but is not required for most. Keep the movements slow and ask your partner what feels good as you go. This is all done at home on your bed.
Action
One partner lies on their back. The other gets on top facing them. You can wrap your legs around the other person or keep them flat. Move your hips together while you look at each other. Keep the pace slow at the beginning.
Pro-Tip
Put a pillow under the hips of the person on the bottom. This lifts them up a bit and can make it feel different.
Spicy Twist
Pause every minute to kiss for ten seconds before you continue.
Action
Sit on the bed facing your partner. Put your legs around their body. Hold each other with your arms. Rock your hips forward and back in small motions. Stay close the whole time.
Pro-Tip
If your legs cramp extend them for a short break then try again.
Spicy Twist
Talk about how it feels while you move together.
Action
Lie on your sides in the same direction. The back partner enters from behind. The front partner can bend their knees. Use your free hand to touch your partner on the chest or legs.
Pro-Tip
The front partner should push back gently to help with the right fit.
Spicy Twist
The back partner can kiss the neck of the front partner.
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Action
One partner lies on their back. The other sits on top but faces the feet. The top partner uses their legs to move up and down. This gives a different view and angle than the normal way.
Pro-Tip
Hold onto the other partner's legs for balance if you need it.
Spicy Twist
Look over your shoulder at your partner from time to time.
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Action
One partner lies on their back and lifts their hips high off the bed. The other partner kneels in front and holds the lifted hips. Move together while the bottom partner keeps their hips up.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow under the head of the person doing the bridge for neck support.
Spicy Twist
The bottom partner can squeeze with their legs during the movement.
Action
Both partners lie on their sides with their heads near the other person's hips. You can use your mouth and hands on each other at the same time. Adjust your bodies until it feels comfortable.
Pro-Tip
Use your hand to guide your partner to the right spot.
Spicy Twist
Change who is more active every thirty seconds.
Final Tip
Choose two positions to try this week. Pay attention to what works for both of you. Adjust as needed and talk about it after. Doing this regularly can change how you have sex.
Common Questions
Yes. Start with the missionary or spooning ones. They do not require much flexibility. Go slow and stop if it hurts.
Communicate with your partner. Change positions if one feels bad. A pillow can help support your body in some of them.
They give you something new to do together. The talking during and after is what helps over time.
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