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8 Virtual Date Ideas for LDR Couples

Long distance relationships make normal dates difficult. You can still spend quality time together using video calls. These eight ideas give you specific things to try instead of just talking. Prepare the materials listed for each activity. Set a time that works for both of you. Turn off other notifications during the call. Most of these need nothing but your camera and internet. A few use items you already have at home. They work from your couch or bedroom.

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1. Play Truth or Dare

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2. Play Never Have i Ever

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3. Slow Activity on Call

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Action

Select the same song on your devices. Play it at the same time. Stand up so your partner can see your full body. Move to the music while looking at the screen. Try to match each others rhythm.

Pro-Tip

Practice a few moves before the call so you feel less awkward dancing alone.

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activity closer to the camera and use slower music for a different feel.

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5. Story Relay

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Action

Start the video call. One person begins a made up story with one sentence. Take turns adding the next sentence. Keep the story going for ten minutes. Pay attention to where the story goes.

Pro-Tip

Decide on a starting theme like a vacation or mystery before you start.

Spicy Twist

Make the story about two people who meet in an interesting situation.

6. Massage Demonstration

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7. Role Play Chat 🌶️

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8. Karaoke Duet

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Action

Find song lyrics that you both know. Play the music at the same time. Sing along together on the video call. Take turns doing verses and sing the chorus together. Record it if you want.

Pro-Tip

Test the audio settings so you can hear each other without lag or problems.

Spicy Twist

Choose a song with meaningful lyrics to your relationship.

Final Tip

These activities give you a way to have dates even when apart. Use them regularly to maintain your connection. Adjust them as needed to fit your relationship.

Common Questions

What is the best app to use for these virtual dates?

Any video call app with good quality works. Zoom, FaceTime, or Discord all support the activities in this list.

How do we keep the conversation from getting boring?

Follow the structure of the chosen activity. Prepare materials in advance so you always have the next step ready.

Can we adjust the activities to our comfort level?

Yes. Change the questions or dares to match what you both like. Start simple and increase the challenge over time.

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