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Sex Positions for Anniversaries

Anniversaries are a good time to focus on each other. These eight positions give couples ways to be physically close. You can try them at home with little preparation. Some use a pillow to change the angle. The others need nothing extra. Begin by choosing a position you both want to try. Set up the bed so you are comfortable. Move slowly at first to find what feels right. Check in with your partner often. This makes sure both of you enjoy it. A drink can help you relax before or after.

1. Slow Missionary ✨

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Action

One partner lies on their back with knees bent and feet flat. The other partner kneels between the legs and enters while leaning forward. Both partners move their hips together. Keep eyes open and look at each other the whole time. Start with small movements then build speed slowly.

Pro-Tip

Mention one thing you like about your partner during the position. This adds an emotional layer to the physical act.

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Pause to take a sip from your glass and share a kiss.

2. Side by Side ✨

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Action

Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction. The back partner enters from behind. Place one arm under the neck for support. Use the other hand to touch the front of the body. Make small hip movements for a gentle rhythm. This position is good when you want low effort.

Pro-Tip

Use this when one person is tired. It still allows close contact without too much energy.

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Whisper future plans you have as a couple while staying in this hold.

3. Kneeling From Behind 🌶️

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Action

One partner gets on hands and knees on the bed. Keep the back arched slightly. The other partner kneels behind and holds the hips. Enter and use different angles by changing the height. Lean over the back for kisses on the neck. Adjust speed based on feedback.

Pro-Tip

Ask your partner for feedback on the angle and speed. This helps you learn what works best for both of you over time.

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Use a soft fabric to cover the eyes of one partner for added surprise.

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4. Wrapped Seated Hold ✨

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Action

One partner sits on the bed with legs crossed. The other partner sits on the lap facing them. Wrap the legs around the back. Hold each other with arms and rock the hips in small circles. This keeps you close and allows long eye contact.

Pro-Tip

Focus on matching your breathing pattern with your partner. It can make the experience feel more connected.

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Trace fingers lightly along the back and shoulders during the rocking.

5. Woman on Top ✨

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Action

One partner lies on their back. Place a pillow under the hips to raise them up. The other partner straddles facing forward. Use the legs to control the up and down or grinding movements. Set the pace that feels best at the time.

Pro-Tip

Allow the person on top to decide all the movements. This can give that partner a sense of control in the moment.

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Have a glass of wine next to the bed to sip during short breaks.

6. Backward on Top 🌶️

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Action

One partner lies flat on the back. The other straddles facing away with feet placed toward the head. Lean forward a bit for deeper feel. The bottom partner can hold the hips to help with the motion. Move up and down in a steady way.

Pro-Tip

Position a mirror so you can see what is happening. This adds a visual part to the experience.

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Try light touches or slaps on the butt during the movement if both agree.

7. Lifted Hips 🌶️

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Action

One partner lies on the back and lifts the hips up high. Keep shoulders and feet on the bed to form a bridge. The other partner kneels and enters from the front. Place a pillow under the lower back to make it easier to hold. Move the hips together.

Pro-Tip

Practice this position with clothes on first to see if the angle works for you both. It helps avoid strain.

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Open a bottle of something bubbly at the start to set the mood.