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Positions for Reuniting After Long Distance

Reuniting with your partner after months apart can feel intense. These positions give you options for different energy levels and moods. Some allow eye contact and kissing. Others need little effort so you can focus on being close. You can do them all at home. A pillow helps with alignment in a couple of cases. The main point is to move at a pace you both like and talk about what feels good.

1. Missionary Position ✨

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Action

Lie on your back on the bed. Your partner lies on top facing you. Wrap your legs around their back. This lets you see their face and kiss easily. Move your hips in time with theirs.

Pro-Tip

Place one or two pillows under your head for neck support. Keep the room at a comfortable temperature so you can stay in the position longer.

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Try holding still and breathing together for a minute before you start moving again. This builds tension between you.

2. Partner on Top ✨

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Action

Your partner lies on their back. You straddle them facing forward. Use your knees to control the speed and depth. Lean forward to get closer if you want to kiss.

Pro-Tip

Use your hands on their chest or shoulders for balance. Switch directions if one way feels better than the other after a few minutes.

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Have them hold your hips and guide some of the movements while you stay mostly in control.

3. Rear Entry ✨

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Action

Get on your hands and knees on the bed. Your partner kneels behind you and enters. This position gives them control over speed. You can lower onto your elbows.

Pro-Tip

Put a pillow under your head or chest if you want to rest your upper body. This reduces strain on your arms and wrists.

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Reach back with one hand to touch their leg or guide them closer during the motion.

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4. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

Both lie on your sides facing the same direction. Your partner stays behind you. They wrap one arm around you. This position requires very little energy and lets you talk easily.

Pro-Tip

Bend your knees slightly to make entry easier. Adjust the top leg position until the angle feels comfortable for both.

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Whisper what feels good to each other or describe how the position feels right now.

5. Chair Position ✨

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Action

Sit on the bed facing each other. Wrap your legs around one another. Hold onto their back or shoulders. Rock back and forth together in this close position.

Pro-Tip

Sit on a firm surface or add a pillow under one person if needed to match heights better.

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Focus on kissing and touching upper bodies while you move your lower bodies slowly together.

6. Standing Position 🌶️

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Action

Stand facing the wall with hands on it for support. Your partner stands behind you. This works if you want a different sensation or quick connection.

Pro-Tip

Make sure your footing is stable on the floor. Bend your knees a little to adjust for any height difference.

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Turn your head to the side to kiss them over your shoulder while they hold you from behind.

7. Mutual Oral Position 🌶️

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Action

Lie on your sides with heads near each others lower bodies. Use your mouths to pleasure each other at the same time. You can also use your hands.

Pro-Tip

Put pillows under your heads or hips to get the angle right without straining your neck or back.

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Take turns being the one to set the pace for a few minutes each before switching.

8. Lying Down Edge ✨

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Action

Lie on your back near the edge of the bed with your legs hanging off. Your partner stands between your legs facing you. This angle can feel different and gives good access.

Pro-Tip

Support your lower back with your hands or a rolled towel if it feels strained in this position.

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Wrap your legs around them and pull them closer with each movement to change the depth.

Final Tip

Pick two or three of these positions during your time together. Pay attention to your partner and communicate clearly. This helps make the reunion positive for both of you.

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