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Sex Positions for Your Anniversary

Anniversary nights give you time to try things in bed. These eight positions give exact steps for setup and movement. Start with a drink or some music. The instructions are simple to follow. Some have you facing your partner. Others change the angle. A pillow helps in one or two. Go in any order you like. Tell your partner if you want to go slower or faster. This gives you choices for the night.

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1. Missionary Position

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Action

Lie on your back and put a pillow under your hips. Your partner kneels between your legs. They enter you. You wrap your legs around their waist. You both move your hips at the same time. You can look at each other during the whole time.

Pro-Tip

Say one thing you like right now about what they are doing. Take time to kiss in between movements.

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Put your hand down to touch your clit while they keep moving at a steady pace.

2. Side Spoon

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Action

Lie on your sides with both of you facing the same direction. Bend your upper leg slightly. Your partner enters you from behind. They hold onto your hip. They thrust gently while you move back against them.

Pro-Tip

This is easy after you eat dinner. Stay in the position to talk about your day or week.

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Reach behind you to touch their body or guide their hand to your chest.

3. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

Your partner lies on their back. You straddle their hips facing them. Lower yourself onto them. Put your hands on their chest for balance. You move up and down or rock your hips at the speed you like.

Pro-Tip

You control how fast or deep it goes. Lean forward when you want to kiss them.

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Have your partner hold your hips and move up while you push down against them.

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4. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

Your partner lies on their back. You straddle them facing their feet. Guide them inside you. You can lean on your hands or sit straight up. Move your hips back and forth.

Pro-Tip

They get to watch from this angle. Switch back if you prefer to face them again.

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Reach back with one hand to touch their balls gently as you continue moving.

5. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Action

Get on your hands and knees on the bed. Your partner kneels behind you. They hold your hips and enter from behind. You can arch your back to change the angle of entry.

Pro-Tip

Put a pillow under your knees for more comfort if you plan to stay in this position long.

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They can reach around to touch you at the front at the same time as they thrust.

6. Chair Position

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Action

Your partner sits cross legged on the bed. You sit on their lap facing them. Lower yourself onto them. Wrap your arms around their neck. Rock your hips together in small movements.

Pro-Tip

Keep the movements small. This works well when you want to talk or look at each other.

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Squeeze with your legs around them and kiss their neck or shoulders at the same time.

7. Standing Position 🌶️

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Action

Your partner lifts you up. You wrap your legs around their waist. They hold your thighs and push you against a wall for support. They thrust upward.

Pro-Tip

This works after you take a shower together. Make sure you both have good balance.

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You can move your hips down to meet their upward thrusts as they hold you.

8. Side Scissors

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Action

Lie on your sides facing each other. Lift one of your legs over their hip. Get near enough for them to enter you. Hold onto each other's hips. Move your hips for friction.

Pro-Tip

This one takes less effort. Use it when you have already tried other positions and feel tired.

Spicy Twist

Hold hands with them and keep looking at each other the entire time you move together.

Final Tip

Try two or three of these positions on the night. Ask your partner what they like. End with time spent lying next to each other.

Common Questions

Are these positions good for beginners?

Yes. Start slow and talk to your partner. Change anything that does not feel right.

Why are these good for anniversaries?

They give you different options for a night when you have more time together.

How do you stay comfortable?

Use a pillow for support if needed. Add lube. Listen to what your partner says.

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