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Sex Positions for Your Anniversary

An anniversary gives you time to be alone with your partner and enjoy each other. These eight positions give you variety from easy to more active ones. Discuss them in advance so you both feel comfortable trying something new. Start with foreplay and stay aware of how your partner responds. There is no rush. The point is to have a good time together in a way that suits you both.

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1. Missionary Position

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You lie on your back while your partner gets on top facing you. Bend your knees and wrap your legs around their waist. This lets you kiss and see each other's faces the whole time. It is easy to do and feels personal.

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Put a pillow under your lower back before you start. It tilts your hips and can make the position more comfortable for longer.

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Wrap your ankles together behind their back. This pulls them in closer with each movement they make.

2. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Have your partner lie on their back. Straddle them facing forward and lower yourself onto them. Use your thighs to move up and down at the speed you like. You can place your hands on their chest for support.

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Keep your knees on the bed for balance. Lean forward or backward to see which direction feels better for both of you.

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Have them sit up slightly so you can wrap your arms around their neck during the motion.

3. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Get on your hands and knees on the bed. Your partner kneels behind you and enters from the rear. They can hold your hips to control the rhythm. Adjust how wide your knees are to change how it feels.

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Keep a pillow nearby in case you want to lower your upper body onto it. This can relieve pressure on your wrists.

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Reach back with one hand to touch yourself or them while they continue moving.

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4. Side Spoon

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Lie on your side with your partner behind you in the same direction. They enter you from that position. It is easy on the body and good if you want a relaxed pace. You can stay in it for a while.

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Bend your top leg forward a little to make entry simpler. Use your free hand to hold onto your partner.

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Turn your head back to kiss your partner over your shoulder from time to time.

5. Seated Position

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Sit on the bed facing your partner. Put your legs around each other and pull in close. Move by rocking your bodies together. This position lets you talk and look at each other the entire time.

Pro-Tip

Sit on a soft surface or add cushions if your legs get tired quickly. Take a break and stretch if needed.

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Hold each other tightly and breathe in sync while you rock back and forth.

6. Standing Position 🌶️

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Action

Stand up and face your partner. Have them lift one leg and wrap it around your waist. Hold that leg and enter them. Use the wall for extra support if you feel unsteady.

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Do this close to the bed so you can move to it quickly if your arms get tired. Take turns holding.

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Try lifting their other leg too if you feel strong enough for it.

7. Sixty Nine

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Lie on your sides with your heads near each other's lower body. Use your mouths to pleasure each other at the same time. You can also use your hands to add more sensation. Adjust your bodies until it feels even.

Pro-Tip

Place a pillow under your head or their hips to keep your neck from straining. This helps you stay in the position comfortably.

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Focus completely on the other person for thirty seconds before switching roles.

8. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Your partner lies on their back. You straddle them but face the other way toward their feet. Lower down and move your hips up and down or in circles. This changes the angle and can feel quite different.

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Lean forward and rest your hands on their legs for balance. This also lets you control the depth better.

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Reach down and touch yourself while you are moving on top of them.

Final Tip

These positions give you options for your anniversary night. Try one or two that sound good to both of you. Pay attention to feedback and switch if needed.

Common Questions

Which positions are best for anniversary beginners?

Missionary position and spooning sex are good for beginners. They do not need special flexibility and let you stay close the whole time. Start slow and add movement as you get used to it.

How can pillows improve these sex positions?

A pillow under the hips can change the angle in several positions. It makes entry easier and reduces strain on your back. Experiment with different sizes until you find what works.

What safety tips apply to trying new positions?

Talk to your partner before and during the activity. Stop immediately if you feel pain or discomfort. Make sure you have good support and balance especially in standing ones.

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