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Sex Positions for Newlyweds

Newlyweds have time to learn what works in bed. These eight positions give clear options for sex that range from close and easy to ones with more movement. Some let you face each other. Others focus on different angles or control. All can be done in your bedroom. Read the steps for each one. Use the tips to adjust for comfort. Talk with your partner about which to try first. This helps you figure out what feels right without rushing.

1. Missionary Position ✨

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Action

Lie on your back with legs apart. Your partner lies on top facing you. This lets you kiss and look at each other. Wrap your legs around him or keep them flat on the bed. Move your hips together in a slow rhythm. It works as a simple starting point for most couples.

Pro-Tip

Place a pillow under your hips before you start. This small change improves the angle. Tell your partner if you want to go slower or faster.

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Hold hands above your head while you move together.

2. Spooning Position ✨

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Action

Both lie on your sides facing the same way. He enters from behind while you stay curled close. One of you can reach back or around to touch. This position feels relaxed and needs little energy. It is good for times when you want to stay in bed longer.

Pro-Tip

Bend your knees slightly to help with entry. Use free hands to touch anywhere on each other during the act.

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Turn your head back to kiss while staying in position.

3. Woman on Top ✨

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Action

He lies flat on his back. You sit on top facing him and lower down. Control how fast and deep you go by moving your hips. He can hold your waist or touch your chest. Lean forward or back to find what feels best for you.

Pro-Tip

Place your hands on his chest to steady yourself. Try different speeds until one clicks for both of you.

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Guide his hands to places you want touched more.

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4. Doggy Style 🌶️

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Action

Get on your hands and knees on the bed. Your partner kneels behind you and enters. He holds your hips to set the rhythm. You can lower to your elbows if your wrists get tired. This one allows for deeper contact than some other positions.

Pro-Tip

Keep your back straight at first. Start with small movements and increase only when it feels right.

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Reach back to touch his leg or guide the pace.

5. Lotus Position ✨

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Action

Sit facing each other on the bed. Wrap your legs around his waist while he enters. Hold each other with your arms and rock gently instead of thrusting hard. This keeps you very close the whole time and works for slower sessions.

Pro-Tip

Sit on a firm part of the bed. Use your arms to support weight so you can last longer.

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Focus on breathing at the same time as you rock.

6. Reverse Cowgirl 🌶️

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Action

He lies on his back. You face his feet and lower onto him. Move up and down or grind in circles. This changes the angle completely from face to face positions. You control everything while he has a view of your back.

Pro-Tip

Lean forward or back to test different feelings. Hold his legs if you need extra balance.

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Look back at him while you continue moving.

7. Standing Hold ✨

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Action

Stand facing each other. Lift one leg around his waist while he holds you steady. Enter in this upright position. Use a nearby wall to help with balance. This works best for shorter periods because it uses more muscle.

Pro-Tip

Try it right after a shower when muscles are warm. Keep knees slightly bent the whole time.

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Switch which leg you lift after a minute or two.

8. Legs on Shoulders 🌶️

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Action

Lie on your back and rest your legs on his shoulders. He kneels in front and enters you. This creates a steep angle for new sensations. Make sure your body feels flexible enough first. He can hold your legs for support.

Pro-Tip

Start with one leg only if both feels too much. Go slow until the position feels stable.

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Have him kiss your ankles or calves during movement.

Final Tip

Pick a few positions to try over the next weeks. Note what you both like best. Keep talking as you go to improve together.

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