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Sex Positions for Long Distance Reunions

Long distance relationships mean spending a lot of time apart. When you finally reunite it feels good to be close again. These positions help you enjoy that physical contact in different ways. Some focus on facing each other. Others give new sensations. You do not need much planning. Just make sure you have privacy and time. Talk about what you both want. This helps avoid awkward moments after the long wait.

1. Missionary Position ✨

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Action

Lie down on your back while your partner positions themselves on top facing you. Wrap your arms around each other. This lets you see facial expressions and kiss easily. Put a pillow under the hips to adjust the angle. Move together slowly at the beginning.

Pro-Tip

Keep your knees bent and feet planted for better leverage and control.

Spicy Twist

Try adding light bites along the neck and shoulders if your partner enjoys that sensation.

2. Cowgirl Position ✨

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Action

Lie on your back as your partner climbs on top facing you and lowers onto you. They control the rhythm completely. You can hold their hips or touch their body. This position works well for the partner who likes to be in charge.

Pro-Tip

The person on top can lean back or forward to find the best angle.

Spicy Twist

Have the bottom partner guide with their hands on the hips.

3. Reverse Cowgirl 🌶️

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4. Spooning Position ✨

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Action

Lie on your sides with both of you facing the same direction. The back partner can enter while holding the front partner close. This feels cozy and requires little energy. Perfect for lazy afternoons spent in bed catching up.

Pro-Tip

The front partner can lift one leg slightly for easier access.

Spicy Twist

Whisper to each other during the act.

5. Lotus Position ✨

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Action

Both partners sit up facing one another. Wrap your legs around each other's backs and pull close. You can hold each other and maintain eye contact. This position is best on a firm surface like the floor with cushions.

Pro-Tip

Rock your bodies together instead of thrusting hard.

Spicy Twist

Kiss and touch faces throughout the position.

6. Standing Position 🌶️

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7. Doggy Style 🌶️

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8. Position ✨

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Action

Lie head to toe so each person's mouth reaches the other's private area. You can lie side by side or with one on top. Pleasure each other at the same time. This position balances giving and receiving.

Pro-Tip

Focus on your partner for a few minutes then switch focus.

Spicy Twist

Use your hands along with your mouth.

Final Tip

Try these positions over the course of your time together. See which ones you both enjoy most. The best part is being in the same room and figuring it out as you go.

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