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Best Sex Positions for Long Distance Reunions

Long distance relationships create strong physical desire. When you finally meet again the first sex can be intense. These positions give you options for different kinds of contact. Some let you look at each other. Others let you hold each other tightly. They all work in a regular bedroom. You do not need special skills or items for most of them. Start with the ones that feel familiar. Talk to your partner about what you both want. This helps the reunion go well.

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1. Missionary Position

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The receiving partner lies on their back. The other partner lies on top facing them. This allows you to kiss and see each other's faces. It is good for reunions because it feels intimate and safe. You can wrap your arms and legs around your partner.

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Move slowly at the start. Pay attention to your partner's reactions and adjust your movements based on what they like.

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Hold your partner's face and look in their eyes the entire time.

2. Woman on Top 🌶️

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The penetrating partner lies on their back. The other partner straddles them facing forward. The top partner moves their hips up and down. This lets the top person control the speed and angle. It feels good after waiting to be together.

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Place your hands on your partner's chest for balance. Try leaning forward or backward to see what feels better.

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Go very slow for the first few minutes then increase the speed.

3. Side Spoon

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Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction. The back partner enters from behind. You stay pressed together along your whole bodies. This position feels cozy and requires little energy. It is nice for lazy mornings after reuniting.

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The front partner can reach back to touch the other. Keep your legs close together for a tighter fit.

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The back partner can kiss the neck while you move together.

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4. Seated Position

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Sit on the bed facing each other. Wrap your legs around your partner's waist. Hold each other with your arms. You can rock together in this position. It creates a lot of skin contact and allows kissing.

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Sit on a pillow if the floor is hard. Use your arms to pull each other closer with each movement.

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Take turns controlling the rocking motion and the speed.

5. Rear Entry 🌶️

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The receiving partner gets on hands and knees. The other partner kneels behind and enters. This position allows deeper movement. It can feel exciting after a long time apart. You can adjust by changing how wide your knees are.

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Use pillows under the knees for comfort. The front partner can lower their upper body onto the bed.

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The back partner can reach around to touch the front partner's body.

6. Standing Position 🌶️

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Both partners stand up. One bends over or lifts one leg. The other enters from behind or front. This works right when you walk in the door. It adds excitement because it is not in the bed.

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Find a stable surface to hold onto. Keep your knees slightly bent to maintain balance.

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Try this immediately after one person arrives from their trip.

7. Legs on Shoulders 🌶️

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The receiving partner lies on their back. They put both legs on the other partner's shoulders. The top partner kneels or stands. This changes the angle and can feel very deep. Use a pillow under the hips to make it easier.

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Start with one leg up if two feels too much. Check in often to make sure it is comfortable.

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The top partner holds the legs and moves in a steady rhythm.

8. Sixty Nine Position

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Both partners lie on their sides or one on top. Each person's head is near the other person's genitals. You give and receive oral sex at the same time. This position lets both people feel pleasure together. It is good for equal attention.

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Use pillows to support your head and neck. Focus on what you are doing to your partner.

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Pause occasionally to kiss each other before continuing.

Final Tip

Try one or two positions each time you reunite. See which ones feel best for you as a couple. The time apart makes these moments more special so enjoy them fully.

Common Questions

How do these positions help long-distance couples?

They allow close physical contact right after a long separation. This helps rebuild the physical connection quickly.

What's the best order to try these positions?

Start with positions that allow eye contact like missionary or lotus. Then try others based on your energy levels.

Do these positions need any equipment?

Most need nothing besides a bed. You can use a pillow for support in a couple of them if you want.

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