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Sex Positions for Newlyweds

You just got married. These eight positions work for new couples. They are simple to do in bed. Most keep you facing each other. He enters her in each one. You adjust your legs and arms to get the fit right. Laugh when a position feels strange at first. Talk about what feels good as you do it. Prepare the room by dimming the lights. Try one position this week. Practice helps the movements become easier. You will learn what each of you likes best over time.

1. Missionary Position ✨

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Action

She lies on her back with her legs open. He lies on top of her facing the same direction. He holds himself up on his elbows. He pushes his hips forward to enter her. They move their hips up and down together. She can wrap her arms around his neck. Change the speed based on what feels good to both.

Pro-Tip

Place a pillow under her hips before you begin. This changes the entry angle. It makes it easier for her to feel comfortable. Test with one pillow first.

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She can lift her knees toward her chest. This allows for deeper movement. Try circling the hips instead of just thrusting.

2. Spooning Position ✨

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Action

Both of you lie on your sides. He lies behind her in the same direction. She lifts her upper leg slightly. He enters her from behind. He wraps one arm around her waist. They move with small hip thrusts. This position is easy to hold for a long time. She can turn her head to kiss him.

Pro-Tip

This one works well when you are tired. You stay in contact the whole time. Move slowly for as long as you like.

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He reaches around to touch her front with his hand. She can push back against him to control the motion.

3. Cowgirl Position ✨

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Action

He lies on his back on the bed. She straddles his hips facing him. She lowers herself onto him. She puts her hands on his chest or the bed. She moves her hips up and down or in circles. He can hold her hips or thighs to help. She decides how fast or slow to go.

Pro-Tip

She has control over the speed and depth. This allows her to find the spots that feel best. He can relax and watch her move.

Spicy Twist

She leans back and puts her hands on his legs. This creates a different angle for both of you.

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4. Reverse Cowgirl 🌶️

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Action

He lies on his back. She straddles him but faces his feet. She lowers herself down onto him. She uses her hands on his legs for balance. She moves her hips forward and backward or up and down. He can see her back and hold her waist. She can look back at him over her shoulder.

Pro-Tip

This gives him a different view of her body. Switch back to the regular cowgirl if she gets tired in her legs.

Spicy Twist

She can bounce up and down faster once comfortable. He can slap her bottom lightly if she likes that.

5. Doggy Style 🌶️

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Action

She gets on her hands and knees on the bed. He kneels behind her on his knees. He holds onto her hips with his hands. He enters her from behind. They move back and forth together. He can pull her hips back toward him. She can arch or flatten her back to change how it feels.

Pro-Tip

Start very slow until you find a rhythm that works. Ask her if the depth is okay. Adjust your stance if needed.

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She can lower herself down to her elbows. This changes the angle. He can reach around to touch her.

6. Lotus Position ✨

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Action

He sits on the bed with his legs crossed. She sits on his lap facing him. She wraps her legs around his waist. She lowers herself onto him. They hold each other and rock back and forth slowly. This requires some flexibility in the hips. Use your arms to support the movement.

Pro-Tip

Good for times when you want to go slow. You can kiss and talk easily in this stance. Stay in it for ten minutes or more.

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She can grind her hips in small tight circles. Hold each other close and match your breathing.

7. Side Entry Position ✨

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Action

You both lie on your sides facing each other. She puts her top leg over his hip. He enters her while lying this way. They thrust their hips from side to side. You stay close together the whole time. This position is good for kissing. It does not require much energy.

Pro-Tip

Use this one for longer sessions. You can stop and start without changing positions much. Keep movements small and controlled.

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Lift her top leg higher with one hand. This lets him go deeper inside her.

8. Legs up Position 🌶️

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Action

She lies on her back near the edge of the bed. She raises her legs straight up. He holds her ankles or calves on his shoulders. He kneels and enters her from above. The position allows for deep entry. He controls the speed and depth with his movements. She can hold onto the sheets.

Pro-Tip

This one feels tighter than others. Go slow until you both get used to it. Check in frequently about the depth.

Spicy Twist

She can rub herself while he moves. He can vary the speed from slow to fast.

Final Tip

Start with the missionary position. Add another one each week. Note which ones feel good. Talk about the experience after. This helps you improve together.

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