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Prep your bathroom or bedroom. Lay out warm towels. Add massage oil and bubbles. Pick a position. Relax into slow moves then build heat.
Action
Lie on sides facing same way in bed. She raises top leg. He slides in from behind. Use slow thrusts. Run warmed hands over her body. Kiss her neck softly.
Pro-Tip
Turn heads for eye contact. Builds closeness after a long day. No rush needed.
Spicy Twist
Drizzle edible oil on her back. Lick it off as you thrust deeper.
Action
She lies on back. Bend knees. Lift hips up. He kneels between legs. Hold her hips. Thrust deep and steady.
Pro-Tip
Do core exercises before. Hits G-spot well. Take turns holding up.
Spicy Twist
Press vibrator on her clit. Adds extra pleasure to thrusts.
After dark
Action
He sits cross-legged on bed. She straddles facing him. Wrap legs around waist. Grind hips in slow circles. Hold tight.
Pro-Tip
Stare into eyes. Match breaths to last longer. Deepens connection.
Spicy Twist
Pinch her nipples lightly. Adds tingles while you grind.
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Action
Stand in warm shower facing each other. She lifts one leg around his hip. He holds her to wall. Thrust as water runs down.
Pro-Tip
Put non-slip mat down. Warm bodies under water first. Leads to sex easy.
Spicy Twist
Rub soap over skin. Slide bodies together before he enters.
Action
She lies on back. Spread legs wide. He kneels on top. Mix shallow and deep strokes. Pour oil on chests for slick skin. Kiss deep.
Pro-Tip
Ask what rhythm she likes. Oil cuts friction. Rub clit too.
Spicy Twist
Put blindfold on her. Touch random spots to build tension.
After dark
Action
Fill tub halfway with warm bubbly water. He leans back. She climbs on facing him. Rock hips up and down. Hold her waist.
Pro-Tip
Stay shallow for safety. Water splashes make it fun. Kiss during.
Spicy Twist
Trail bubbles over skin. Tease spots before she rides fast.
Maximum heat
Action
She gets on hands and knees. Slide pillow under her belly. He kneels behind. Grip hips. Thrust firm and steady.
Pro-Tip
Pillow takes back strain. Raise higher for best angle. Talk dirty.
Spicy Twist
Give light spanks on butt. Mix sting with thrusts.
After dark
Action
Warm towels on bodies first. She lies on back. Put legs over his shoulders. He leans forward. Go deep and slow.
Pro-Tip
Stretch legs gently before. Builds flexibility with practice. Lasts longer.
Spicy Twist
Run ice cube down her chest. Mix hot towels with cold.
Final Tip
Grab your partner tonight. Try spooning first if new to this. Adjust for comfort. Talk about favorites after. Keeps things hot long-term.
Common Questions
Use coconut or massage oil. Warm it first in hands. Wipe excess to avoid slips.
Warm towels on skin first. Place pillow under hips or knees for support. Helps angles.
Keep tub water shallow. Add bath mat. Hold each other steady.
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