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8 Sex Positions with Eye Contact

You and your partner can try different positions during sex. The ones on this list let you face each other. They also let you hold on to each other. All of them can be done in your bed. Go at a slow speed. Pay attention to what your partner does with their hands or face. These positions work for different energy levels. Choose one and see how it goes for both of you.

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1. Missionary Position

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The receiving partner lies on their back. The other partner gets on top facing them. Wrap your legs around the top partner's back. You can kiss and see each other clearly while moving your hips together slowly.

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Put a pillow under the receiving partner's hips to change the angle. Hold hands on either side of the head.

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Keep eye contact for thirty seconds without looking away then close your eyes and focus on the physical feeling.

2. Side Spoon

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Action

Both partners lie on their sides. The behind partner faces the same direction as the front partner. The behind partner enters from behind while holding the front partner around the chest or waist. The front partner can turn their head to kiss.

Pro-Tip

The front partner can bend their top knee to make entry easier. Use your free hand to touch the other person's arm or leg.

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The behind partner whispers in the front partner's ear about how good it feels right now.

3. Seated Position 🌶️

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4. Woman on Top

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Action

One partner lies flat on their back. The other straddles them facing forward. The top partner controls the movement by moving their hips up and down or in circles. Both can hold hands or touch chests.

Pro-Tip

The bottom partner can bend their knees to give more support to the top partner. Look at each other's faces the whole time.

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The bottom partner tells the top one exactly how fast they want the movement.

5. Lying Face to Face

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Both partners lie on their sides facing each other. One partner lifts their top leg over the other person's hip. This allows entry while you stay looking at each other. Hold onto backs or shoulders for stability.

Pro-Tip

Place a pillow behind the bottom partner's back for extra support. Adjust the leg position until it feels comfortable for both.

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Take turns closing your eyes and describing what the other person looks like at that moment.

6. Scissors Hold

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Action

Both partners lie on their sides but with heads at opposite ends. Bring your hips together and interlock your legs. One leg goes over and one under. You can hold hands or touch legs while moving against each other.

Pro-Tip

Start with small hip movements to find the right angle. Use your hands to pull yourselves closer together.

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Use one hand to touch the other person's chest or stomach area at the same time.

7. Lap Sitting 🌶️

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8. Prone Close Hold

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Action

The receiving partner lies flat on their stomach with legs slightly apart. The other partner lies directly on top matching the position. The top partner uses their arms to support some weight. Move in short strokes while staying pressed together.

Pro-Tip

The top partner should keep most weight on their elbows. This position works best when both partners are similar in height.

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The bottom partner can squeeze their legs together to change how it feels for the top partner.

Final Tip

Try one position from the list this week. See which ones you both enjoy most. You can adjust them to fit your bodies and preferences each time you use them.

Common Questions

How do you bring up trying new sex positions?

Pick a time when you are not in bed. Say you found some positions that look interesting. Ask if they want to try one.

What makes a position build your bond?

These positions let you see your partner's face and expressions. You can talk or kiss easily and stay in full contact with their body.

What if one partner feels tired for intense positions?

Go with the positions that need less movement like the spoon or prone hold. You can stop and rest at any time without changing position.

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