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8 Comfortable Sex Positions with Pillows

Pillows make it easier to try different positions during sex. They support your hips, back and legs. This reduces pain and strain after. You can focus on your partner instead of discomfort. These eight positions use common pillows to improve alignment. Set them up in your bed at home. They work for most couples. Use them to make your time together more enjoyable. Choose positions based on your energy level. Always check with your partner if the support feels right. Small adjustments can make a big difference.

1. Missionary Position ✨

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Action

The receiving partner lies on their back. Place a pillow under their hips to lift the pelvis. The other partner kneels between the legs and enters. Maintain eye contact throughout. Move your hips in a steady rhythm that both enjoy. This setup eases pressure on the lower back for the bottom partner and allows better angles.

Pro-Tip

Check the pillow for the right height before starting. Ask for feedback from your partner on the angle. Add or remove pillow if it causes any discomfort in the neck area.

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Use a blindfold on one partner to heighten the sense of touch and surprise with each movement.

2. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

Both partners lie on their sides with one behind the other. The front partner bends the knees slightly. The back partner enters from behind while holding the front partner close. Use short gentle thrusts. This position keeps things low energy and intimate with full body contact.

Pro-Tip

It works well when you are not in the mood for active positions. Begin with cuddling and ease into the sex. Match breathing to stay coordinated.

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The back partner reaches around to stimulate the front partner manually at the same time.

3. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

One partner lies on their back. The other straddles them facing forward or backward. The top partner uses their legs to control the up and down or grinding motion. The bottom partner can thrust upward or hold the hips. This allows the top partner to set the speed and depth they prefer.

Pro-Tip

The bottom partner should offer encouragement to the top one. This helps the top partner feel more confident. Try switching directions midway through.

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The top partner leans backward to alter the internal angle and add different pressure.

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4. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Action

The receiving partner gets on hands and knees on the bed. The penetrating partner kneels behind and holds the hips or waist. Enter from behind and use the hold for leverage during thrusts. The receiving partner can lower their upper body or keep it raised for different feelings.

Pro-Tip

Apply lubrication generously before starting. Begin with slow movements to build up. Check in verbally with your partner about the depth and speed.

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If agreed, the back partner can pull the hair lightly or use light spanking.

5. Seated Position ✨

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Action

One partner sits cross legged or with legs stretched out. The other partner sits on their lap facing them. Wrap the legs around the back of the partner. Hold each other with the arms and rock the hips together instead of big thrusts. This creates close contact from chest to groin.

Pro-Tip

Breathe in unison with your partner. This helps extend the time you spend in the position. It is useful for building emotional closeness.

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Gently bite or lick the neck and shoulders of your partner during the rocking motion.

6. Side Scissors ✨

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Action

Partners lie on their sides facing each other. One partner lifts a leg over the other's hip. The penetrating partner enters in this intertwined leg position. Use the free hands to hold or caress. Thrusts are short and focused on closeness rather than power.

Pro-Tip

This is a low effort option that works when tired. Adjust the leg height and angle until penetration feels good for both.

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Use your fingers to stimulate the clitoris or other sensitive areas while in the position.

7. Hip Bridge 🌶️

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Action

The receiving partner lies on their back and raises their hips off the bed. The penetrating partner kneels between the legs and holds the raised hips. Enter while the bottom partner keeps the hips up using leg strength. This creates a straight line for better contact.

Pro-Tip

Strengthen your core muscles on other days to make this easier. Take a break and lower the hips if the muscles start to burn.

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Set up a mirror nearby so you can see the bodies from the side.

8. Legs Raised 🌶️

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Action

The receiving partner lies on their back. Place a pillow under the hips. Raise the legs and rest them on the shoulders of the standing or kneeling partner. The top partner leans forward to enter. Hold the legs or ankles for control during the thrusts.

Pro-Tip

Make sure the receiving partner is fully aroused before this position. It allows for deep penetration so go slow at the start.

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The top partner can kiss or suck on the toes if the receiving partner enjoys that sensation.

Final Tip

These positions help you stay comfortable during sex. Use pillows only where they help your body align. Try them out and see which ones you like. Good communication makes them work better for both of you.

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