Date ideas
You and your partner can spend time outside together in different ways. These eight dates get you out of the house and into new places. You talk more when you are moving around or seeing new things. After the activity you come home and prepare a bubble bath. You fill the tub and get in the water together. The warm water helps your bodies relax after the time spent moving around. It also gives you extra time to talk without any distractions. Pick one that matches the weather and your energy level.
Action
Drive to the beach as the sun goes down. Walk on the sand near the water. Listen to the waves and talk about your day. The cool air feels fresh. Stay for about an hour then drive home. Run hot water in the tub and add bubble soap.
Pro-Tip
Bring a bag for any shells you find. Have him put on boxer briefs after he dries off from the bath.
Spicy Twist
Ask each other what you liked most about the walk once you are in the water.
Action
Find a short trail in the woods. Walk at a slow pace and look at the trees. The path is usually quiet. You can hold hands on the wide parts. It takes one or two hours. Back home the warm bath feels extra nice.
Pro-Tip
Check online for trail maps and difficulty. Wear shoes with good grip on the bottom.
Spicy Twist
Take turns naming three things you are thankful for while you sit in the bath.
After dark
Action
Rent kayaks and go on a calm river. Paddle side by side and watch the banks. The movement works your arms. Stay out for forty five minutes. It is good exercise. The bath helps your body recover from the paddling.
Pro-Tip
Make sure you know how to get in and out of the kayak safely. Bring a change of clothes in case you get wet.
Spicy Twist
Race each other to a tree on the shore then laugh about it in the tub later.
Featured gift
Keep the spark going with a gift that matches the mood of this guide.
Shop now ✨Action
Pack food and go to a park. Sit on the grass and eat your meal. Watch people and birds while you talk. It is easy and close to home. One hour is enough time. Start the bubble bath as soon as you arrive.
Pro-Tip
Prepare the food the night before to save time. Bring a blanket to sit on and keep food off the ground.
Spicy Twist
Share your food with each other from the same plate and talk about the taste.
Action
Go to a rooftop open to the public. Look at the view of the city. Stay for thirty minutes and talk. The open space feels different. Drive home after and get the bath ready. The height makes the tub feel cozy.
Pro-Tip
Find out the hours it is open and if you need permission. Take a small drink if allowed.
Spicy Twist
Point out different buildings you saw and make up stories about them in the bath.
Action
Drive up a mountain road and stop at view points. Get out and look at the valley below. Bring snacks for the stops. The drive takes two hours total. The bath is a good way to finish the trip.
Pro-Tip
Check your car before the drive. Make sure it has enough gas and the tires are good.
Spicy Twist
Talk about where you would like to drive next time while you sit together.
Action
Find a drive in theater and watch a movie. Sit in the car with snacks. Comment on the film as it plays. The experience feels fun. After it ends drive home. The bath is a nice end to the evening.
Pro-Tip
Bring extra blankets for the car if the night is cool. Test the radio station before the movie starts.
Spicy Twist
Hold hands during the movie and discuss your favorite parts in the bath.
After dark
Action
Book a hot air balloon ride for the two of you. Enjoy the view from high up. The ride lasts around one hour. It is quiet except for the burner. After you land go home. Use the bath to relax after the adventure.
Pro-Tip
Book in advance because spots fill up fast. He can wear boxer briefs under his clothes for the ride.
Spicy Twist
Share what the height made you feel once you are back in the tub.
Final Tip
Try these dates when you have a free afternoon. They give you time outside and then a calm finish in the bath. Change them to fit your area and interests.
Common Questions
Check the weather forecast. Have the bathroom clean and towels ready before you leave. Tell your partner the plan so both of you are ready.
Talk about what you did on the date. Share what you liked and any funny parts. Keep the talk light.
Yes. Walk around your block or watch a movie at home instead. The bubble bath part stays the same.
Keep Reading
Jump into a few softer picks first, or skip straight to the hotter side of the archive.
Date Ideas
Shop The Mood
You've seen the guide. Here are a few pieces that make the whole thing feel more real.
