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8 Sex Positions to Try at Home

Many couples use the same sex positions. Trying new ones can make things better. These eight positions give you options. They let you face each other or touch in new ways. Most need nothing extra. A pillow helps in one or two for support. Follow the steps for each. Start slow. Check in with your partner. Adjust as you go. You will find some that feel good for both of you.

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1. Improve Missionary

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The receiving partner lies on their back. Place a pillow under their hips to raise them up. The other partner gets on top facing them. Wrap your legs around their waist. Keep your eyes open and watch their face as you move.

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Breathe at the same time as your partner. Count to five on each breath together. This helps you stay in rhythm and feel more in sync with each other during the position.

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Pause movement every thirty seconds. Kiss your partner slowly on the mouth and neck before you continue with slow thrusts.

2. Side Spoon

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Both partners lie on their sides facing the same way. The partner behind enters from the rear. The front partner bends their knees slightly. Reach back to touch their leg or arm while staying close.

Pro-Tip

Use your free hand to touch your partner's chest or stomach. Ask them what pressure they prefer on those touches as you stay in position.

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The front partner squeezes their legs together tightly during movement to increase the feeling for both of you at the same time.

3. Lotus Sitting 🌶️

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Action

One partner sits with legs crossed on the bed. The other sits on their lap facing them. Wrap legs around the back. Hold each other with arms around the shoulders and move in small rocks.

Pro-Tip

Stay in this position for at least five minutes before switching. It gives time to talk between kisses and notice how your partner reacts.

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Place your hands on each other's hips and guide them in a slow circular motion together while maintaining full body contact.

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4. Woman on Top

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Action

The man or receiving partner lies on their back. The other partner straddles them facing forward. The top partner moves up and down or in circles. Place hands on the chest for balance.

Pro-Tip

The bottom partner can place hands on the top partner's thighs and help with the movement rhythm by adding gentle pressure when needed.

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Lean your upper body forward to kiss your partner on the lips while continuing the motion and changing the angle slightly.

5. Reverse on Top 🌶️

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Action

The bottom partner lies on their back. The top partner straddles facing away. Move your hips in circles or back and forth. The bottom partner has a good view from behind.

Pro-Tip

The top partner can lean forward and rest on their hands for different pressure points. The bottom partner can give feedback on what feels best.

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The bottom partner can lightly touch or hold the top partner's back and waist during movement to guide without taking control.

6. Doggy Style

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Action

One partner gets on hands and knees on the bed. The other partner kneels behind and enters. Keep your upper body low or high to change how it feels. Hold onto the hips.

Pro-Tip

Communicate about the depth that feels right for the front partner. Adjust your bodies so neither person gets tired too quickly.

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The back partner can reach around to touch the front partner's chest or stomach while keeping a steady pace together.

7. Standing Position 🌶️

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8. Hip Raised Position

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Action

The receiving partner lies on back with knees bent. Lift hips up off the bed. The other partner kneels and holds the hips while entering. Keep core tight to hold the pose.

Pro-Tip

Switch who holds the hips if one person gets tired from the position. Take breaks by lowering down to the bed for a moment.

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Add a small pillow under the lower back if lifting is hard. This changes the height and reduces strain on the muscles.

Final Tip

Pick two positions from this list to try this week. See which ones you both like. Talk about them after you finish. This helps you get better at knowing what works for your bodies.

Common Questions

Are these positions safe for beginners?

Yes. All of them can be tried by beginners. Move slowly and stop if any part feels painful or uncomfortable.

Which position helps you feel close most?

The lotus sitting position. You stay face to face and can talk or kiss the whole time.

How do I use a pillow during sex?

Place it under the hips to change the angle in certain positions. It makes some moves easier to hold.

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