Date ideas
Many couples who play video games want to add their hobby to intimate time. These positions show how to hold game controllers while you have sex. Each person keeps one controller in their hands throughout. You can press buttons or use vibration as you move. It gives a sense of teamwork. Wireless controllers work best. Try these in your own bed. Start slow and see which ones you both enjoy most.
Action
She lies on her back. He gets on top facing her. They hold one controller each between their chests. He enters her. They press buttons while moving their hips together. They keep their eyes on each other.
Pro-Tip
Use wireless controllers so cords do not get in the way. Choose a favorite song to follow for rhythm.
Spicy Twist
Turn on the vibration feature at the start of the position and raise it slowly as you continue.
Action
He lies on his back. She sits on top of him facing forward. They hold their controllers in front of them. She moves her hips in circles or up and down. He moves up from below to match her.
Pro-Tip
Put a pillow under his head for comfort. Keep your words positive and encouraging.
Spicy Twist
Complete a set number of hip movements before changing the speed.
Action
You sit close facing each other with your legs wrapped around. Hold the controllers between your bodies. He enters her. You rock your hips back and forth slowly. Press buttons to add feeling.
Pro-Tip
Place pillows under your knees if you sit on the floor. Match your breathing with your partner.
Spicy Twist
Draw one card from a deck of playing cards to decide the next speed.
Featured gift
Keep the spark going with a gift that matches the mood of this guide.
Shop now ✨Action
You lie on your sides with her in front. He enters her from behind. She holds her controller in front of her body. He reaches his arm around to hold his. They move their hips together.
Pro-Tip
This position requires little energy. It is good for times when you feel tired.
Spicy Twist
Use the controllers to lightly touch sensitive spots on each other during the movements.
After dark
Action
She gets on her hands and knees on the bed. He positions himself behind her. They hold the controllers in their hands. He enters and they move together. She can arch her back for better angle.
Pro-Tip
Put a mirror in front of her if you want visual feedback. Use clear words to communicate what feels good.
Spicy Twist
Change the vibration setting on the controllers as you go along.
Maximum heat
Action
You lie down so you can use your mouths on each other at the same time. Keep the controllers close by on the bed. Take turns using your hands to press the buttons. Start with slow movements.
Pro-Tip
Arrange your bodies so the controllers stay within reach. Use button taps to let your partner know what you like.
Spicy Twist
The first person who lets go of their controller continues for two extra minutes.
After dark
Action
He lies on his back on the bed. She gets on top with her back toward him. They hold the controllers at their sides. She moves her body up and down. He can help by moving his hips too.
Pro-Tip
Add lubrication if needed for comfort. Hold each other for a while after you finish.
Spicy Twist
Put on a movie or show that you both like in the background.
After dark
Action
Lie on your sides facing each other with legs twisted together. Hold the controllers near your hips. He enters her in this position. Make small movements with your bodies. Turn your heads to kiss.
Pro-Tip
Try the leg positions before you start. This one works best if you are flexible.
Spicy Twist
Draw from a deck of playing cards to pick a new action or speed.
Final Tip
Try a few of these positions with your partner. They use things you already have. Talk about what you liked afterwards. It can add variety to your nights at home.
Common Questions
They use controllers you already own. This makes it easy to go from gaming to being intimate. It adds shared interests to your time together.
Wireless gamepads are best. They let you move without trouble. Button presses and vibrations can make things more exciting.
Set small bets between you. Or draw from a deck of playing cards to choose random moves.
Keep Reading
Jump into a few softer picks first, or skip straight to the hotter side of the archive.
Date Ideas
Shop The Mood
You've seen the guide. Here are a few pieces that make the whole thing feel more real.
