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8 Sex Positions With Eye Contact

These eight positions let you stay close to your partner. They work in your own bed. Some have you face each other directly. You can look at each other or speak quietly. The movements are slow and simple. One has you on your back. Another has you on your sides. A third has you sit together. Breathe at the same time in some. Touch with your hands. Try them one by one. See which ones you both enjoy. They take little preparation.

1. Missionary Position ✨

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Action

She lies on her back with her knees bent. He kneels between her legs. He enters her and keeps his upper body close by resting on his elbows. They look at each other. They move their hips slowly. They can touch each other's faces or arms.

Pro-Tip

Stop the movement for a few seconds. Ask her what she likes in that moment. The answers can help you know each other better.

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Say one thing you enjoy about the moment. Keep looking at her while you speak.

2. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

You both lie on your sides facing the same direction. She is in front. He is behind. He lifts her upper leg and enters her. He puts an arm around her. They rock their hips slowly. He stays close to her back.

Pro-Tip

Talk about something simple like what you did that day. The position makes it comfortable to have a conversation at the same time.

Spicy Twist

He uses his hand to touch her chest area gently. It adds to the close feeling.

3. Seated Position ✨

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Action

He sits with his legs crossed on the bed. She sits on his lap facing him. She wraps her legs around his waist. They put their arms around each other. They rock their hips in small circles. They hold the position.

Pro-Tip

Try to breathe in and out together at the same pace. This can make the position feel more coordinated for both of you.

Spicy Twist

They pull each other tighter with their arms. This increases how much their bodies touch.

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4. Leaning on Top ✨

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Action

He lies on his back on the bed. She gets on top of him facing him. She leans forward so their chests are close. She puts her hands on his chest. She moves her hips. He holds her thighs with his hands.

Pro-Tip

Let her decide how fast to move. This gives her control in the position and may carry to other decisions.

Spicy Twist

She leans down to kiss his neck or chest. The kisses happen while she continues to move.

5. Standing Position 🌶️

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Action

She stands and faces the wall. She puts her hands on the wall for balance. He stands behind her. He holds one of her legs up. He enters her from behind. He uses his other hand to hold her waist.

Pro-Tip

Try it when you have a few free minutes. It can be a quick way to be close without planning.

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He kisses her neck or shoulder from behind. The kisses happen between the movements.

6. Hip Lift ✨

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Action

She lies on her back. Put a pillow under her hips to lift them up. She pulls her knees toward her chest. He kneels in front of her and enters her. He holds her ankles or legs for support. The angle is different.

Pro-Tip

After you finish, stay in bed and talk about the position. Say what felt good and what you might change next time.

Spicy Twist

He changes the speed of his movements from slow to faster. He watches how she reacts to know what she likes.

7. Side Scissors ✨

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Action

You both lie on your sides facing each other. She puts her top leg over his hip. He puts his leg between hers. They move close until he enters her. They move their hips in the same rhythm. They hold onto each other.

Pro-Tip

Both of you move at the same time. It feels balanced. This can be good to try when you want equal participation.

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They use their hands to touch each other while they move. This adds another way to feel good together.

8. Chair Position 🌶️

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Action

He sits on the bed with his legs out straight. She sits on his lap with her back to his chest. She leans back against him. He enters her from that position. She moves her hips back against him. His hands are free to touch her.

Pro-Tip

This position lets you speak easily. Talk about your week or any small issues. It turns the time into a mix of movement and talk.

Spicy Twist

He uses his hands to touch her breasts or stomach. She can adjust her lean to help him reach.

Final Tip

Pick one position and try it this week. See if it feels good for both of you. Stick with the ones you like. They offer a way to spend time close together. This may help you understand each other better.

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