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Sex Positions for Your Anniversary

Your anniversary gives you a chance to try new sex positions together. These eight ones can all be done in your bedroom. They tell you exactly how to place your bodies and move. Each has a tip that makes it easier to do. One twist per position shows a small change you can add. Most need no extra items. Two of them work better with a pillow in place. Pick the ones you like and try them in any order. Tell your partner if you want to change something.

1. Standing Position ✨

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Action

Stand facing each other. Place hands on the hips. Lift your partner a small amount as they wrap their legs around your waist. Kiss them on the mouth. Move your hips in a slow way. Keep this for thirty seconds then lower them to the floor.

Pro-Tip

Do this after you eat your anniversary dinner. It starts the night while you stand up. Look at each other without looking away for the full thirty seconds.

Spicy Twist

Say one thing you like about them while you kiss. Move your hands around their back.

2. Chair Position ✨

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Action

Sit on the bed facing each other with your legs crossed. One person sits in the lap of the other. Wrap your arms around the neck. Move your hips from side to side slowly. Look at each other the whole time and breathe the same way.

Pro-Tip

This one lets you stay in one spot for a while. Tell a story from one of your past anniversaries to fill the time between moves.

Spicy Twist

Change to small circles with your hips instead. See if that feels different for you both.

3. Hips up 🌶️

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Action

One person lies on their back with knees pulled to the chest. The other kneels in front and enters them. Put a pillow under the lower back and hips. This raises the body and changes the direction of movement.

Pro-Tip

Ask each other about the speed you want. The pillow lets you adjust the height until it matches what you both like during the position.

Spicy Twist

Take hold of the ankles and pull the body closer each time you move in.

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4. Standing Position ✨

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Action

Have one person stand with their back to the wall. Raise one leg up and put it on the other person's hip. Hold the leg and body weight. Move upward while you kiss the neck area. Switch to the other leg after one minute.

Pro-Tip

This one is good if you have already had your anniversary drinks. It uses the wall so you do not need a bed for support.

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Tap the raised leg with your hand a few times if your partner agrees to it.

5. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

Both of you lie on your sides. One person is behind the other. The back person lifts the top leg of the front person. Enter from behind and hold that leg. Move your hips at the same time as your partner.

Pro-Tip

Pick this one when you want to stay lying down the whole time. You can hold each other without much effort between movements.

Spicy Twist

Reach your hand around to the front of their body while you continue to move.

6. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Action

One person gets on their hands and knees on the bed. The other person kneels right behind them. Place a pillow under the stomach. Hold the hips with both hands and move in steady motions.

Pro-Tip

One person can choose how fast to go then switch roles. This way both get a turn to decide the movement.

Spicy Twist

Take a small amount of hair in your hand and pull back if they say it is okay.

7. Leg up Side 🌶️

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Action

One person lies on their side. Lift the top leg straight up in the air. The other person lies at a right angle to them and enters. Hold the leg in the air and move your hips from side to side.

Pro-Tip

Test the leg position on your own first to see how high it can go. This stops any pulls or strains on your muscles.

Spicy Twist

Go slow for two minutes then speed up for one minute and repeat the pattern.

8. Chair Position 🌶️

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Action

Sit on the bed facing your partner. Have one person go on top of the other. Wrap both legs and both arms around them. Move your whole body as one piece. Keep kissing during the movements.

Pro-Tip

Leave this position for the last part of the night. Stay in it after you stop and talk about the other positions you used.

Spicy Twist

Hold each other tighter with your arms and legs near the end of the position.

Final Tip

These positions give you choices for your anniversary night. Use them in the order you want. The pillow helps in two positions. Talk about what worked for you when you finish.

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