Date ideas
Your anniversary night is a good time to spend close time together. These eight positions give you options to try in the bedroom. They are all easy to do and need little preparation. Most use just the bed. One uses a pillow to change the angle. Choose what matches your mood that night. Make sure to ask your partner what they like. Start slow and keep checking in. This helps the night stay good for both of you.
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Lie on your back with a pillow under your lower back. Your partner gets on top facing you. Keep your bodies close so you can kiss. Move your hips in a gentle rhythm. This position lets you see each other's faces the entire time.
Pro-Tip
Keep your legs bent to make it easier on your back. Use your hands to touch your partner's face or back.
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Maintain eye contact the whole time while you move.
After dark
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Your partner lies on his back. You straddle him and lower yourself down facing him. Control the speed by moving your hips. You can lean forward or back to change how it feels. He can hold your waist or legs.
Pro-Tip
Start with small movements until you find a rhythm that works for both. Rest your hands on his chest for balance.
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Tease him by changing speeds during the act.
After dark
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Get on your hands and knees on the bed. Your partner positions himself behind you and enters. He can hold your hips as he moves. You can adjust by lowering your upper body onto the bed. This allows for deeper entry.
Pro-Tip
Make sure the bed is stable. Tell him if you want it slower or faster.
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Have him reach around to touch you at the same time.
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Lie on your side. Your partner lies behind you in the same direction. He enters you from behind. This is a relaxed position that needs little effort. You can stay like this for a long time.
Pro-Tip
Bend your top leg a bit to make entry easier. Stay close so your bodies touch everywhere.
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Stay in this position after finishing to keep the closeness.
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Your partner sits on the bed with legs out. You sit on his lap facing him. Wrap your legs around his back. Rock together instead of bouncing hard. This keeps you very close the whole time.
Pro-Tip
Do this near the headboard so you can use it for support if needed.
Spicy Twist
Hold each other tight and breathe together.
After dark
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Stand facing each other. You lift one leg and wrap it around him. He holds your leg and enters you. Use a wall for balance. Keep the position short unless you have good strength.
Pro-Tip
Stay close to the bed so you can move to it easily if your legs get tired.
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Your partner lies on his back. You face his feet and straddle him. Lower down and move your hips. You can lean forward to change the angle. This gives him a different view of you.
Pro-Tip
Use your legs to control how fast you go. Hold his legs for balance.
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Look back at him over your shoulder occasionally.
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Lie facing each other on your sides. Lift one leg over your partner. He enters you from this angle. Movements are small but intimate. You can kiss and talk easily in this position.
Pro-Tip
Put a pillow under your head for neck comfort. Adjust your hips until it feels right.
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Run your hands along each other's bodies as you move.
Final Tip
Try one or two of these positions on your anniversary night. Talk about what you liked afterward. The best part is spending the time focused on each other.
Common Questions
Face to face and spooning are good for beginners. They are easy to get into and do not require much strength or flexibility.
Use pillows where needed. Stop and switch if anything feels painful. Take your time and communicate with your partner.
The fact that it is a special day adds to the mood. You know your partner well so you can focus on what you both enjoy.
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