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Man and woman on FaceTime enjoying a spa day at home

How to Have a Spa Day Over FaceTime

Living far apart from your partner makes shared relaxing activities hard. FaceTime lets you have a spa day together from different places. Prepare towels and creams in your bathroom before you call. Position the device so you can see each other. Follow the steps at the same time and talk about how they feel. The whole thing takes an hour and uses things you have at home. It gives time to focus on each other.

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1. Tie a Towel Turban

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Wet your hair in the sink if you like then take a clean towel. Wrap it around your head and twist it at the top to hold it. Show your partner how you did it on the call. Have them do the same on their side. Talk about if it feels secure or needs adjustment.

Pro-Tip

Use a towel that is the right size for your hair length. A clip can help keep it from unwrapping during the call.

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Tell your partner what you would do to help them with their towel if you could reach through the screen.

2. Apply a Face Mask

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Take the face mask and put a thin layer on your clean face. Cover the cheeks and forehead but stay away from the eyes. Do this while your partner copies the action on their end. Set a timer for ten minutes. Keep the conversation going until it is time to rinse.

Pro-Tip

Choose a mask that matches your skin type for the best result. Have a washcloth ready by the sink for easy removal.

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Explain how you would apply the mask for them in person.

3. Fill The Bathtub

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4. Sip a Warm Drink

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Prepare a hot tea or coffee in your kitchen. Bring it back to the bathroom area. Hold the mug up to the camera so your partner can see. Take slow sips while you stay on the call. Discuss how the drink helps you relax.

Pro-Tip

Choose a drink that you both like to make it feel shared. Be careful not to spill near your phone or laptop.

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Say what you would add to their drink if you were making it for them.

5. Rub Your Shoulders

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6. Use Scented Lotion

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7. Paint Your Nails

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Set up your nail polish colors in front of the camera. Choose one and apply a coat to your nails carefully. Let it dry a little before adding another layer. Show the color choice to your partner. Comment on how steady your hand is during the process.

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Do one hand at a time to make it easier to hold the phone. Have remover nearby in case of mistakes.

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Pick a color you think would look good on them and explain why.

8. Soak Your Feet

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Final Tip

This kind of shared activity helps you feel close to your partner. Try the spa day over FaceTime every few weeks to keep the routine going.

Common Questions

What supplies do I need for a virtual spa day?

Towels, face masks, bath bubbles, lotion, nail polish and a bowl or tub are the main items. Most are already in your home so you probably do not need to buy anything new.

How long should the FaceTime call last?

Plan for about an hour. That gives enough time to complete all eight steps at a comfortable pace without feeling rushed.

Can we do this if we do not have a bathtub?

Yes. Replace the bath with extra time on the face mask or foot soak. The focus is on doing the steps together on the call.

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