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Hosting a private wine tasting at home gives you and your partner time to try different wines together. Buy three or four bottles that vary in type and flavor. Set up a table with glasses and some paper. Cut cheese and bread for snacks. Taste small amounts and talk about what you notice in each one. The activity takes little effort but creates a nice evening. You do not need to know a lot about wine to have a good time. Just pay attention to the tastes and enjoy the conversation.
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Select three or four wines with different styles from the store. Get both white and red options to have variety. Talk to the staff for good affordable choices if you are unsure. This variety lets you compare the flavors directly during your tasting.
Pro-Tip
Choose bottles with screw caps if you do not have a corkscrew at home.
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Pick one wine that your partner will like based on past favorites.
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Clear a table in a quiet area of your home. Put down a clean cloth if possible. Place the glasses in a row and add water glasses next to them. Make sure there is enough space for the bottles and snacks.
Pro-Tip
Check that the table is at a good height for both of you to sit comfortably.
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Sit side by side instead of across from each other.
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Cut cheese into small cubes and arrange with crackers on a plate. Add some apple slices or grapes. These mild items help clear your mouth between different wines. Keep the portions small so eating does not take over the tasting.
Pro-Tip
Wear an apron while you prepare the food to keep your clothes clean from any drips.
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Try a bite of food and then a sip of wine to see how they change each other.
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Open the first bottle and pour a small amount into each glass. Use about one ounce per sample. Start with the lightest wine and go to the darkest. Rinse the glasses with water between types if you only have two glasses.
Pro-Tip
Swirl a little water in the glass and dump it out before the next wine.
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Pour the wine for your partner each time.
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Take a sip and hold it in your mouth for a few seconds. Notice the smell first by swirling the glass. Think about whether it is sweet, sour, or bitter. Do this for every wine in order.
Pro-Tip
Take a small bite of cracker between each wine to reset your taste.
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Describe the taste to your partner before they try it.
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Write down a few words for each wine on a piece of paper. Include the color, smell, and taste. Note if you liked it or not. This helps you remember the ones you want to buy again later.
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Make the note sheet before you start drinking.
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Compare your notes and see where you agree or disagree.
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Talk about each wine after you both have tasted it. Mention what you liked or did not like. Ask your partner what they noticed. The discussion often becomes the main part of the evening.
Pro-Tip
Avoid checking your phone during the discussion.
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Move to a comfortable couch for this part of the evening.
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Rinse the glasses and put away the leftover wine. Clean the table once you are done. Decide which wine was your favorite. This quick step makes the end of the night smooth.
Pro-Tip
Save a half glass of your favorite wine for later that week.
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Plan your next tasting based on what you learned.
Final Tip
You now have everything you need to host a wine tasting at home. It is an easy activity that can become a regular thing. Adjust the steps based on what worked best for you both.
Common Questions
Three or four wines is plenty for two people. It keeps the tasting from becoming too long or confusing.
Simple items like cheese, bread and fruit are best. They clean your mouth without changing the wine taste too much.
No. Use your own words to say what you like or dislike. The point is to enjoy the time together.
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