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8 Sex Positions for Couples

These eight positions show different ways to have sex with your partner. Each one tells how to place your bodies and how to move. You can do all of them in your bedroom. Get ready with kissing and touching first. Move into the position slowly. Check if the angle works for both of you. Change things if it does not feel right. The pro tip gives one idea to add during the act. The spicy twist gives one way to vary it.

1. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

The woman lies on her side with knees bent a little. The man lies behind her. He lifts her top leg slightly for entry. He enters slowly. They rock hips with shallow movements. His arms wrap around her. Hands can roam over her body.

Pro-Tip

This works on low energy nights. Whisper one positive thing about your partner as you move together. It is easy and comfortable for both.

Spicy Twist

Take your time to tease the area around her entrance with your fingers first before entry.

2. Missionary Position ✨

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Action

The woman lies on her back and spreads her legs. The man gets between her legs on his knees. He enters her while looking at her face. She can wrap her legs around his waist. They change between slow circles and straight thrusts.

Pro-Tip

Keep eye contact if possible and breathe in the same rhythm. This helps both of you stay in the moment.

Spicy Twist

Gently hold her wrists above her head to add a light control element during the act.

3. Seated Position ✨

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Action

Man sits cross legged on the bed. Woman sits facing him on his lap and lowers onto him. They wrap their arms around each other. They move by rocking their hips in small circles. They stay close enough to kiss easily.

Pro-Tip

This position lets you talk easily while connected. Ask your partner about any new things they would like to try.

Spicy Twist

Grind your bodies so that her clitoris gets direct contact with each hip movement.

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4. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

The man lies on his back. The woman gets on top of him facing his face. She places her hands on his chest. She moves her hips to control how deep and how fast. She can lean in different directions to change the angle.

Pro-Tip

Encourage her to take full control. After you are done discuss what felt best for her in this position.

Spicy Twist

Shuffle a deck of cards first. Draw one to decide the pace or angle to use.

5. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Action

Woman positions on her hands and knees on the bed. Man kneels behind her and grips her hips. He enters from the rear. He varies the speed from slow to fast. She can adjust by arching or lowering her back.

Pro-Tip

Set up clear signals like hand squeezes before you start to communicate comfort without words. This builds better understanding.

Spicy Twist

Add light taps on her thighs or bottom during thrusts if both agree to it.

6. Standing Position 🌶️

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Action

The woman faces a wall and stands with legs apart. The man stands behind her. He holds her hips and enters from behind. They use the wall for support. He can lift one of her legs slightly if it feels good.

Pro-Tip

This position is good for spontaneous moments. You can begin it after some foreplay in a different room.

Spicy Twist

Draw a card from the deck to pick which room to do the position in.

7. Side by Side Position ✨

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Action

Both lie on sides facing each other. The woman drapes her top leg over the man's hip. He enters her. They thrust with small movements. Their hands are free to caress each other. They can lift legs higher for better access.

Pro-Tip

This is low effort and good when you have different energy levels. Take time and enjoy the closeness.

Spicy Twist

Apply lubricant for easier movement. Add finger stimulation to her at the same time.

8. Sixty Nine Position 🌶️

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Action

You lie on the bed so your head is near your partner's genitals and vice versa. Use your mouths to pleasure each other at the same time. You can lie side by side or one on top. Use hands to help control the movements.

Pro-Tip

Focus on giving as much as receiving. Switch who is on top in the middle if you want.

Spicy Twist

Pause when one gets close to finishing. Restart after a moment to build more tension.

Final Tip

Pick one position this week. Note what you both like about it. Try another one soon after. Talk about the experience each time. This adds new options to your sex life.

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