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Sex Positions for Gamer Couples

Gamer couples share an interest in video games. You can use similar coordination in bed with these positions. Hold each other closely and move in steady rhythms. The setups range from sitting to kneeling. They are all meant for your home. Talk during the activity to make sure it feels good for both. Six of them need nothing extra. Two use a pillow for support. Start with ones that look easy and build from there. This can help you connect in a new way.

1. Lap Facing ✨

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She sits on his lap facing him on the bed. She holds his shoulders with her hands. He supports her hips with his hands. She moves her hips in slow circles while he thrusts upward. Keep your backs straight for better balance during the motion.

Pro-Tip

Use a sturdy bed or couch so you do not slip. Match your breathing to stay in sync with each other.

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Give your partner specific directions on how fast or hard to move during the position.

2. Reverse Sit 🌶️

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He lies on his back on the bed. She sits on top facing his feet. She puts her hands on his thighs for support. She rocks her body forward and backward in a steady motion. He can hold her waist from below to help guide her.

Pro-Tip

Take short breaks if your muscles start to hurt. Switch who is in control to make it last longer.

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Try adding light taps or slaps in time with your rocking motion.

3. Pillow Missionary ✨

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Place a pillow under the man's lower back while he lies flat. The woman gets on top facing him. She puts her hands on his chest for balance. They move their hips together in a pulsing rhythm. The pillow helps change the angle of entry.

Pro-Tip

Adjust the pillow thickness until the position feels right. Experiment with how wide she spreads her legs.

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Use a blindfold on one person to increase the sense of anticipation.

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4. Forward Ride 🌶️

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She gets on top facing him. She leans forward and rests her hands on his chest. She circles her hips or moves them up and down. He holds her waist or hips to help set the pace of the motion. This allows close contact.

Pro-Tip

Maintain eye contact throughout to increase the connection. Compliment each other on what you are doing well.

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Include touches to her nipples as she continues to move her hips.

5. Rear Position 🌶️

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Action

She gets on her hands and knees on the bed. He kneels behind her and enters. He places one hand on her hip and uses the other to touch her back. He varies his thrusts between deep and shallow ones. She can arch her back to change the feeling.

Pro-Tip

Communicate about the depth and speed that feels best. This position requires trust so check in often.

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If she likes it gently tug on her hair during the thrusts.

6. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

Both partners lie on their sides facing the same way. Place a pillow between her knees for comfort. He enters her from behind and reaches his hand around to her front. They make small grinding movements together. This is good for relaxed sessions.

Pro-Tip

It is ideal when you are not full of energy. Whisper to each other about the sensations you feel.

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Hold a small vibrator against her while you continue the movements.

7. Edge Sit 🌶️

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Action

She sits on the edge of the bed with her legs apart. He stands between her legs and enters her. She wraps her legs around his waist and holds onto his back. They move together with steady bounces. This works after you have taken a break.

Pro-Tip

Make sure the bed height is comfortable for the standing person. Drink water and rest if the session is long.

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Stop just before reaching climax and then begin again to build tension.

8. Kneeling Hold 🌶️

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Action

Both kneel on the bed while facing one another. She wraps her legs around his waist as he supports her weight with his arms. They look at each other and thrust together. Hold this position to increase the intensity. It requires some arm strength.

Pro-Tip

Build up your stamina by trying it for short times first. Cuddle together afterward to relax.

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Focus on deep kissing at the same time as the thrusting motions.

Final Tip

Try a few of these positions with your partner this week. See which ones you both enjoy the most. Focus on staying close and communicating. A pillow can help in some of them for extra comfort. Keep it simple and do what feels good.

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