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Newlyweds often look for ways to stay close after the wedding. The Kama Sutra is an old guide with different sex positions. This article lists eight of them that suit people with little experience. You can try them at home in your bed. Each one includes steps to follow and small changes you can make. Remember to talk with your partner about what feels good and what does not. Start with the easier ones and move to others later. This helps you both feel comfortable while you learn.
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Lie on your back while your partner gets on top facing you. Wrap your legs around their back or keep your feet on the bed. This setup lets you see each other clearly and adjust the angle with a pillow.
Pro-Tip
Put a firm pillow under your lower back. It changes the angle and reduces strain on the lower back for longer sessions.
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Keep steady eye contact and say out loud what feels right in the moment.
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Sit face to face with your legs wrapped around each other. The person on the bottom sits with legs crossed while the other sits in their lap. Move with small rocks instead of big thrusts.
Pro-Tip
Use cushions under the bottom partner for extra height and comfort. Keep your backs straight to avoid cramps.
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Take turns setting the speed by squeezing your legs tighter or looser.
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Both of you lie on your sides facing the same way. The partner in back lines up and enters from behind. Keep your bodies pressed together and move your hips in unison.
Pro-Tip
The front partner should bend their knees slightly. This makes entry and movement much smoother for both people.
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Reach around with one hand to touch your partner while you move together.
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One partner lies flat on their back. The other straddles them facing forward and controls all movement by shifting hips up and down or in circles.
Pro-Tip
Place hands on the chest of the partner below for balance. Lean forward or backward to find the best feeling angle.
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Turn around to face the other direction once you feel comfortable in the position.
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Stand facing each other. One person lifts one leg while the other holds it for support. Use a wall or door frame to stay steady during movement.
Pro-Tip
Choose the shorter person to stand against the wall. Bend knees slightly to match heights better.
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Do this right after you both get home from an evening out together.
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Lie on your back and push your hips upward into a bridge shape supported by your shoulders and feet. Your partner kneels in front and moves between your legs.
Pro-Tip
Do a few back stretches first. Keep the hold only as long as your muscles feel steady.
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Switch roles after three minutes so both partners get a turn holding the bridge.
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Face each other while lying on your sides. Wrap your legs together and move your hips gently against one another. Your bodies stay close the whole time.
Pro-Tip
Hook your top leg over your partner. This creates better contact and makes small movements easier to control.
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Pause every minute to breathe together without any movement at all.
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Final Tip
These positions give you practical options to try as newlyweds. Pick one or two per week. Talk about what worked and what to change next time. Keep going at a pace that suits you both.
Common Questions
No. These positions work for complete beginners. Start slow and use the simple ones first while you learn what you both enjoy.
Missionary position, spooning and cowgirl work well at the start. They need little strength and let you keep eye contact if you want.
Choose one position every weekend. Spend time on it then discuss what you liked over breakfast. Add another when you feel ready.
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