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Kama Sutra Tips for Long Distance Couples

Long distance can make closeness difficult. The Kama Sutra has many positions and ideas you can adapt even when you are apart. Use your phone or computer to try these eight ideas. They help you stay connected through movement, words and eye contact. Start with ones that seem easy. Pay attention to what your partner says they enjoy. This keeps the time you spend together useful and fun.

1. Choose Position ✨

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Take time to select one position from the Kama Sutra book to discuss. Share the name and basic details with your partner on the video call. Explain how the bodies are arranged in that position. Listen to their reaction and thoughts on it.

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Have the book or a list of positions ready on your device so you can switch quickly if one does not appeal to both of you.

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Talk about how you would change the position to make it better for the two of you if you were in the same place.

2. Set up Camera ✨

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Place your camera at a good angle for the position. Make sure you have enough light and the background is not distracting. Test the view with your partner. Get into a comfortable position for the call.

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Use books or other items to prop up your device at eye level or the right height for full body view.

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Remove clothing piece by piece while your partner gives feedback on the camera angle.

3. Missionary Position 🌶️

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Lie on your back with knees bent. Have your partner do the same on their side. Move your body slowly while watching the screen. Describe the movements and how they make you feel in the moment.

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Keep your eyes open and look at the camera often to create the feeling of direct contact.

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Use your hands to touch the areas that would be touched by your partner in this position.

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4. Try Spooning ✨

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Lie on your side facing the direction your partner would be. Match the body position as closely as possible. Make small movements with your hips. Talk about how the position would feel if you were together.

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Place a pillow behind you to simulate the presence of your partner during the exercise.

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Describe in detail the type of touch you would like in this spooning position.

5. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Sit on pillows arranged to mimic being on top. Control the motion with your hips. Have your partner watch and give instructions or comments. Switch who is giving directions after a few minutes.

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Adjust the height of your camera to give the best view of your movements to your partner.

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Ask your partner to tell you what they would do with their hands while you move.

6. Read Book Passages ✨

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Open the Kama Sutra book to a page you both like. Read a section out loud over the call. Stop to discuss the ideas in it. Share if you have tried something similar before.

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Mark several interesting pages in the book ahead of time to avoid wasting minutes on the call.

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Act out the described movements with your body as you read the text to your partner.

7. Sync Your Breathing ✨

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Sit facing the camera in a comfortable chair or on the floor. Close your eyes and breathe in and out at the same time as your partner. Do this for several minutes without speaking.

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Set a timer for three to five minutes so you know when the breathing exercise is over.

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Start touching yourself lightly in time with the shared breathing rhythm you have established.

8. Describe Sensations 🌶️

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Final Tip

Use these tips on your regular calls to keep things interesting. They help you learn about each other in new ways. Try different ones until you find what works for your relationship.

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