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Want a spa night that turns steamy? Dim the bedroom lights. Warm some massage oil in your palms. Pick a soft bed or rug. These Kama Sutra positions mix touch and closeness. Your man will thank you. Start slow.
Action
Sit cross-legged on the bed facing each other. She straddles his lap. Wrap her legs around his waist. He holds her back. Rock hips together slowly. Rub warm oil on skin for smooth moves. Lock eyes. Breathe deep.
Pro-Tip
Hold eye contact. Say what you like about each other. Do it after work to unwind fast.
Spicy Twist
Put a blindfold on her. Trail oil lightly down her back. Then pull her close.
Action
Lie on sides. He spoons behind her. Lift her top leg a bit. Enter slow. Press bodies tight. Stroke her skin from behind. Warm oil on her shoulders. Move together gently.
Pro-Tip
Save it for chill nights. Talk about future plans softly. Helps you both feel safe.
Spicy Twist
Press a vibrator to her from behind. Match it to your thrusts.
Action
She lies on back. Bend knees. He kneels between legs. Lean forward. Enter deep. Bodies touch full. Massage breasts and neck with oil. Sway hips slow.
Pro-Tip
Circle her clitoris first with fingers. Put pillows under knees. Stay comfy long.
Spicy Twist
Trail ice cubes on nipples. Mix with warm oil.
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Action
He lies flat on back. She straddles facing him. Lower slow onto him. She picks speed. Lean forward or back. He oils thighs. Roll hips in circles.
Pro-Tip
She leads to feel strong. Ask what speed he wants. Learn bodies again.
Spicy Twist
Grind deep. Pinch nipples. Tell him to hold still.
After dark
Action
He lies on back. She mounts facing away. Arch back light. Hands on his thighs. Bounce or grind back. He grips hips. Oil lower back.
Pro-Tip
New angle excites. Switch speeds to go longer. Do after facing version.
Spicy Twist
Spank light as she rides. Reach for clitoris.
Maximum heat
Action
She on hands and knees. Arch back. He kneels behind. Enter firm. Hold hips. Lean for neck kisses. Drizzle oil down spine.
Pro-Tip
Pull hair soft if she wants. Hug tight after. Keeps feelings good.
Spicy Twist
Pull her up to your chest. Tell her next move.
Maximum heat
Action
She faces shower wall. Hands braced. He behind. Lift one leg. Enter from rear. Water runs down. Grip hips tight.
Pro-Tip
Quick hit for fun urges. Laugh in steam. Dry off with rubs after.
Spicy Twist
Hold wrists up with soft scarf.
After dark
Action
She on back. Lift hips to bridge. Feet and shoulders down. He kneels between. Hold hips up. Thrust from below. Oil inner thighs.
Pro-Tip
Pillows under shoulders help hold it. Laugh if shaky. Builds strength fun.
Spicy Twist
Vibrate her while thrusting. Keep going to finish.
Final Tip
Mix these with oil rubs for your best spa night. Take turns leading. Cuddle after. Repeat often.
Common Questions
Use any massage oil. Warm it in your hands first. A little goes a long way on skin.
Most are easy for beginners. Put pillows under knees or back for support. Practice slow.
Dim the lights. Play soft music. Take turns massaging each other before starting.
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