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Couple using positions on anniversary night

Positions for Your Anniversary

Anniversaries give couples time to be together. The Kama Sutra is an old book from India. It has lists of ways to touch and hold each other. Choose what suits you. Make the room ready with soft lights. Use clean sheets and extra pillows. Put a mug of water by the bed. Talk about what you want to try. The steps below tell you how to set up and move. Stay at a speed that works for both.

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1. Chair Position ✨

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Action

Sit on the bed with your legs crossed facing your partner. Have your partner sit in your lap and wrap their legs around your waist. Put your arms around each other. Rock your hips in small circles. Keep your faces close the whole time.

Pro-Tip

Tell each other one thing you like about the other person. Do this between movements to stay focused on the moment.

Spicy Twist

Pick up the speed of the rocking a little. Add kisses on the neck area.

2. Man on Top ✨

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Action

Have one partner lie on their back with knees bent. The other partner lies on top facing them. Use elbows to keep some weight off. Move hips in gentle motions. Kiss the face and neck during the activity.

Pro-Tip

Slide a pillow under the lower back of the person lying down. This can make the angle more comfortable for both.

Spicy Twist

Hold hands or wrists lightly during the movements. Kiss the ears in between.

3. Side by Side ✨

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Action

Both lie on your sides facing the same direction. The partner behind lifts the front partner's leg slightly. Hold around the waist. Move your hips at the same time. Kiss the back or shoulder of the person in front.

Pro-Tip

This option needs little energy. It fits well after you eat your anniversary meal or when you feel tired.

Spicy Twist

Move one hand to the front of the other person for added touch while keeping the hip movements.

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4. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

One partner lies on their back. The other straddles the hips facing them. Lower down slowly. Put hands on the chest for balance. Control the up and down motion yourself. Lean forward to kiss when ready.

Pro-Tip

The person on top can set the rhythm that feels best. The other person can share what they enjoy in simple words.

Spicy Twist

Turn around to face the feet instead. Use your hands on the legs to steady yourself.

5. Woman Facing Away 🌶️

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Action

The bottom partner lies on back. The top partner straddles facing away. Lower down and place hands on the thighs. Rock back and forth or up and down. Glance back over the shoulder from time to time.

Pro-Tip

Use this one after the forward version. The change in direction gives different sensations without changing location.

Spicy Twist

Lean the upper body forward toward the feet. Make larger circles with the hips.

6. on Hands And Knees 🌶️

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Action

One partner gets on hands and knees on the bed. The other kneels behind and holds the hips. Start with short movements. Increase or decrease based on feedback. Keep a steady pace throughout.

Pro-Tip

Place pillows under the knees of both people if the surface feels hard. Check in often about the pressure used.

Spicy Twist

Use one hand to reach around to the front of the partner for extra contact.

7. Standing Position 🌶️

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Action

One partner faces the wall and puts hands on it. The other partner stands behind and lifts one leg. Hold the waist for support. Bend knees and move upward. Kiss the neck and back.

Pro-Tip

Stay close to the bed so you can switch to it if your legs get tired. Good for shorter activities.

Spicy Twist

Attempt to hold both legs if you have the strength. Use the wall to help carry the weight.

8. Head to Toe 🌶️

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Action

Lie on the bed so your heads are at opposite ends. Line up so mouths are near the other person's lower body. Use your mouth and hands at the same time. Switch who is on top after a few minutes.

Pro-Tip

Begin with light touches and slow actions. Make sure the position feels good for both before you continue.

Spicy Twist

Use fingers along with the mouth movements. Pause the actions to make the time last longer.

Final Tip

Try one or two of these positions. Ask your partner how it feels. Use clear words to say what you like. Spend time resting and talking after. This can make your anniversary better.

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