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Kama Sutra for Newlyweds

The Kama Sutra is an ancient Indian book about love and sex. For newlyweds it provides simple positions to try in the bedroom. The name translates to rules of desire. These eight positions are good for people just starting out. Lie down on the bed. Use slow movements at first. Hold each other and talk about the sensations. Pillows help adjust height and comfort. Laugh if needed. Try them one by one over the next weeks.

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1. Face to Face ✨

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Action

Lie on the bed on your sides facing your partner. Lift one leg over. He enters slowly. Move hips back and forth together. Hold each other with your arms. Look at each other and kiss the neck or lips.

Pro-Tip

Place one pillow under her hips for better angle. This reduces strain on the back. Ask your partner if the speed is comfortable.

Spicy Twist

Run fingers down the back slowly. Tell your partner one thing that feels good during the movement.

2. Woman on Top ✨

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Action

The man lies flat on his back on the bed. The woman climbs on top facing him. She lowers down onto him. She moves her hips in circles or up and down. He places hands on her waist.

Pro-Tip

The woman chooses how fast or how deep to move. This allows her to adjust for her own comfort. The man can touch her chest with his hands.

Spicy Twist

She turns around so her back faces him. She continues the motion by leaning back.

3. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Action

The woman gets on her hands and knees on the bed. The man kneels directly behind her. He holds her hips with his hands. He enters her and both move at an even pace. He can reach to touch her.

Pro-Tip

Put pillows under the knees for cushion. She can lower to her elbows to change the feel. Talk to make sure it feels okay.

Spicy Twist

He pulls her hair softly if she agrees. He gives her bottom a light tap.

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4. Side by Side ✨

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Action

You both lie on your sides with the man behind the woman. She lifts her top leg slightly. He enters from the back. Wrap one arm around her. Move your hips in the same rhythm.

Pro-Tip

This position works on lazy days in bed. You can stay connected afterward without much effort.

Spicy Twist

Use your hand to touch her front area while you continue to move together.

5. Chair Position ✨

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Action

The man sits on the bed with his legs crossed. The woman sits in his lap facing toward him. She puts her legs around his body. They rock their bodies back and forth while close together.

Pro-Tip

Keep your eyes locked on each other the whole time. Breathe in the same pattern. This makes the position last longer.

Spicy Twist

She moves her hips in small circles. She tells him what she wants to try next.

6. Standing Position 🌶️

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Action

The woman stands facing a wall and bends forward with her hands against it. The man stands behind her. He holds her waist. He enters from behind. She can lift one leg for a different feel.

Pro-Tip

This works well in a shower but dry the floor first. Hold on tight for balance.

Spicy Twist

He holds both her wrists above her head. He increases the speed of his thrusts.

7. Oral Touch ✨

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Action

The woman lies on her back with her legs open. The man kneels or lies between her legs. He uses his tongue to make slow circles on her sensitive area. He adds a finger or two inside her. Then switch roles.

Pro-Tip

Ask her what kind of pressure she wants from your tongue. This prepares her body and makes her want more. Take time with it.

Spicy Twist

Take an ice cube from a glass and use it on her skin first for contrast.

8. Massage Position ✨

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Action

You take turns with one person lying face down first. The other pours oil on their hands and rubs the back and legs with slow strokes. Then the person turns over for the front. Kiss the skin you just touched.

Pro-Tip

Rub the oil between your palms to make it warm before you touch skin. This step relaxes tight muscles all over the body.

Spicy Twist

Focus longer on the inner thighs with light touches. Avoid going further until the person asks.

Final Tip

Choose one position for tonight. Talk after you finish about what worked. Switch to another one next time. Regular use teaches you more about each other.

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