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Your anniversary gives you a chance to try something new with your partner. The Kama Sutra is an old Indian guide about love and sex. Kama means desire and sutra means guide or rules. The book describes ways to have sex and how to treat your partner well. Here are eight positions from it. Each one includes clear steps so you know what to do. Pick one or two that sound good. Talk about them first and go at your own pace.
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Action
The man lies on his back. The woman sits on top facing him with her knees on the bed. She moves her hips up and down or in circles. She can squeeze with her muscles as she goes. This gives her control over speed and depth.
Pro-Tip
She can place her hands on his chest for balance. Talk about what speed works for both of you.
Spicy Twist
She turns around to face his feet instead. This changes the angle completely.
Action
The woman lies on her back. She raises one leg onto the man's shoulder. He kneels in front and holds the leg while he enters. They can switch which leg is raised during. This allows for deeper movement than usual.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow under her hips if it helps her back. Start slow to find a good angle.
Spicy Twist
He kisses along her raised leg while moving.
After dark
Action
The woman lies on her back and pulls her knees up toward her chest. Her feet point up. The man positions himself on top between her legs. Her folded legs stay tight to her body. This creates close and deep contact.
Pro-Tip
Only do this if she feels flexible enough. Use extra pillows for support under her.
Spicy Twist
She wraps her arms around his back to pull closer.
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The woman lies face down on the bed with her legs straight. The man lies on top of her from behind. He supports his weight on his elbows. They stay close together the whole time. This needs little movement from her.
Pro-Tip
She can spread her legs a bit if it feels better. Keep movements steady.
Spicy Twist
She lifts her hips slightly off the bed.
Action
Both partners sit facing each other on the bed. She wraps her legs around his back. He puts his legs under or around her. They hold each other and rock together slowly. This works for kissing and eye contact.
Pro-Tip
Sit on a firm pillow to raise height if needed. Keep movements small and controlled.
Spicy Twist
Keep a mug of water nearby for breaks.
After dark
Action
The woman lies on her back and raises her legs up and back toward her head. The man presses her thighs down gently as he enters. Her knees end up near her shoulders. This angle feels different for both.
Pro-Tip
Go slow and check her comfort often. Add cushions under her if needed.
Spicy Twist
She crosses her ankles behind his head.
Action
The woman lies on her back with one leg raised high. The man kneels and holds her foot against his shoulder. Her other leg stays flat on the bed. He moves forward into her. Switch legs after some time.
Pro-Tip
Hold the raised leg firmly but gently. Adjust the height until it feels right.
Spicy Twist
She turns her body slightly to one side.
Action
You sit facing each other like in lotus but with one leg wrapped around. Her other leg stays more relaxed in front. You hold each other and move with small rocks. This version needs less flexibility than the full one.
Pro-Tip
Use extra pillows behind her back for support. Adjust your positions gradually.
Spicy Twist
She leans back while you hold her hands.
Final Tip
These positions give you options for your anniversary. Choose what fits your comfort level. Check in with your partner during and after. The time together matters more than perfect moves.
Common Questions
Kama refers to desire or pleasure. Sutra means a thread or guide. So it means a guide to desire. The book is from ancient India and covers more than positions.
No. Some positions are easy for regular couples. Start with the simpler ones. Talk to your partner and adjust based on what feels comfortable.
Choose two or three positions ahead of time. Set up some quiet time together. Focus on enjoying the moment instead of doing everything right.
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