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8 Positions for Your Anniversary Night

Anniversary nights give you time to focus on each other without outside interruptions. These eight positions give you different options for how to be close. You can choose ones that are slow and allow lots of eye contact or ones that change the usual way you do things. The first step is to talk about what you both feel like trying. Clear some space on the bed or floor. Take turns picking the next one if you do more than one. Pay attention to feedback in the moment and change what you are doing if needed. Keep water next to the bed.

1. Face to Face Sit ✨

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Action

Sit on the bed facing your partner with legs wrapped around each other. Hold on with your arms and move your hips in small motions. This allows you to kiss and maintain eye contact the whole time. Adjust your posture by leaning slightly back or forward to change the sensation. It is good for taking things slow at the beginning of the night.

Pro-Tip

Place your hands on the bed behind you for extra balance if needed. Start with small movements to find a good rhythm before speeding up. Check with your partner every few minutes.

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Try closing your eyes for a few minutes to focus on the physical sensations instead of looking at each other.

2. Cross Legged Sit ✨

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Action

One person sits with legs crossed. The other sits in their lap facing them and wraps legs around. Hold each other and rock your bodies together. This position requires some leg flexibility but offers tight contact. You can control the speed with your arms.

Pro-Tip

Use your arms to help support your weight. If your legs get tired switch to a different position after ten minutes.

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The person on top can lean back slowly while being supported by their partner. This changes the angle and creates new sensations for both.

3. Lie on Your Sides ✨

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Action

Lie on your sides facing the same direction. The person behind enters while you both stay in this position. It is relaxed and requires little effort. You can easily touch each other with your hands or talk during the act. Good for when you want to take your time.

Pro-Tip

Bend your knees slightly to help with alignment. The person in front can push back to control some of the movement.

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Reach around to touch the front partner while you move together. This adds another layer to the experience.

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4. Woman on Top ✨

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Action

One partner lies flat on their back. The other straddles them and lowers down. The top person controls the speed and depth of movement. The bottom person can hold the hips or touch the chest. You can face each other or turn the other way.

Pro-Tip

The bottom partner can bend their knees to create a backrest. This makes it easier for the top person to lean back if they want to.

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The top person can move in circular motions instead of just up and down.

5. Position From Behind 🌶️

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Action

One partner gets on hands and knees on the bed. The other partner kneels behind and enters. You can adjust by spreading the knees wider or narrower. This position allows for deeper penetration and different stimulation. Hold onto the hips for better control.

Pro-Tip

Place a pillow under the front partner's hips to raise them up. This changes the angle and can make it more comfortable for both people involved.

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Do this position in front of a mirror to watch yourselves.

6. Standing Against Wall 🌶️

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Action

Both partners stand facing each other. One lifts one leg up around the other person's hip. Use the wall for balance and support. This is best for shorter periods because it requires strength. You can switch who lifts the leg after a few minutes.

Pro-Tip

Bend the knees a little to keep stable. Make sure the surface is not slippery if you are not wearing shoes.

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Move to the edge of the bed for a mix of standing and sitting.

7. Legs Over Shoulders 🌶️

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Action

One partner lies on their back with legs up. The other partner kneels and puts the legs over their shoulders. This shortens the distance between you and alters the entry angle. Go slowly at first until the position feels right. It works best on a firm surface.

Pro-Tip

Put a pillow under the lower back of the person on their back. This reduces strain and improves the angle for more pleasure.

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Hold the ankles instead of having the legs on the shoulders for a slight variation in stretch.

8. Side by Side Oral ✨

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Action

Lie on your sides with heads at opposite ends. Each person can reach the other with their mouth. Use your hands at the same time. This position allows mutual activity without one person doing all the work. Adjust your bodies until both can participate comfortably.

Pro-Tip

Use a pillow to support your head so your neck does not get sore. Take breaks if you need to change positions.

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Add fingers along with mouth movements for more stimulation at the same time.

Final Tip

These eight positions give you choices for your anniversary night. Try one or two that appeal to you both. Talk during and after to see what you liked. This makes future nights easier to plan.

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