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The kitchen has surfaces that make some positions easier. Counters are usually the right height for standing. Tables let one person sit or lie down. Chairs and stools add options for sitting positions. The floor gives open space. These eight positions show how to use those things. Wipe down the counters and table first. Remove any objects that could get in the way. Choose a position that matches your energy level. Talk with your partner about what feels good as you go. Keep your footing secure and movements controlled.
Action
Clear space on the counter. Stand facing it and lean your upper body forward. Rest your forearms on the surface. Your partner approaches from behind and holds your hips. Adjust foot position until the height matches.
Pro-Tip
Test if the counter is attached well and will not move when pressure is applied.
Spicy Twist
Your partner can reach around while moving.
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Action
Stand in front of the sink and hold the edge with both hands. Bend slightly forward. Your partner comes from behind and holds your waist. The sink gives a good place to grip.
Pro-Tip
Make sure the faucet is not in the way and the area is dry.
Spicy Twist
Lift one leg slightly to change the angle.
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Action
Your partner sits on the chair. You straddle their lap facing them. Lower yourself onto them and move your hips. They can hold your back to help guide you.
Pro-Tip
Choose a chair without arms so you have room to move your legs.
Spicy Twist
Kiss on the neck during the motion.
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Action
Stand facing your partner with your back against the fridge door. Lift one leg around their hip. They hold your leg and thrust while you lean on the cool surface.
Pro-Tip
Make sure the fridge is not full of items that could fall inside.
Spicy Twist
The cool surface gives a new feeling on your skin.
Action
Sit on the stool facing your partner who stands in front. Wrap your legs around them. They hold you and you can lean back slightly while they move.
Pro-Tip
Hold onto your partner firmly since stools can be less stable.
Spicy Twist
Switch who is sitting after a few minutes.
Action
Place a pillow on the kitchen floor for head support. Lie down and have your partner join you. You can use side by side positions with the extra space.
Pro-Tip
Use the pillow under your head or hips for comfort on hard floors.
Spicy Twist
Roll from one position to another on the floor.
Final Tip
These positions let you use your kitchen in a new way. Pick one or two to start with based on what feels easy. Clean up after and talk about which ones you both liked.
Common Questions
It can be if you choose stable surfaces and clean them first. Remove knives and other sharp items. Make sure you have good balance and footing.
Keep the kitchen tidy so you can move things aside quickly. Have lube or condoms in a nearby drawer. Suggest it when you are both already in the room.
Some are easier than others. The chair and counter ones give good support. Start slow and tell your partner if you need to change something.
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