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Kama Sutra Positions for Your Anniversary

Anniversaries are a good time to focus on your partner. You can use positions from the Kama Sutra to make the evening different from normal. The eight options here range from simple to more challenging. They all work in a bedroom setting. Choose based on what you both feel comfortable with. Discuss any limits before you start. Move slowly at first to see how it feels. These can help you learn more about what your partner likes after years together.

1. Lotus Position ✨

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Action

The man sits cross legged on the bed. The woman sits on his lap facing him and wraps her legs around his back. You both hold each other close. Move your hips in small circles or rocks together. This lets you stay face to face the whole time.

Pro-Tip

Sit on a firm pillow if the floor is too hard. Keep your backs straight to avoid back pain later.

Spicy Twist

Maintain eye contact and tell each other one thing you appreciate from the past year.

2. Mare Position ✨

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Action

The man lies on his back on the bed. The woman climbs on top facing him with her knees on the bed. She moves her hips up and down or forward and back. Her hands can rest on his chest for balance.

Pro-Tip

The woman can lean forward or backward to find the best angle for both of you.

Spicy Twist

The woman can pause at the top of each movement before going back down again.

3. Indrani Position 🌶️

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Action

The woman lies on her back and brings both knees up to her chest. The man kneels between her legs and holds her feet on his chest. He moves forward into her while she stays in position.

Pro-Tip

Add lubrication if needed since this position can feel tighter than others. Communicate if the angle needs adjustment.

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The man can move her legs slightly apart or together to change the feeling.

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4. Split Bamboo Position ✨

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Action

The woman lies on her back with one leg straight. She raises the other leg and rests it on the man's shoulder. The man kneels and holds the raised leg while he moves. Switch legs after some time.

Pro-Tip

The woman should stay relaxed in her hips. This prevents muscle cramps during longer sessions.

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The man can kiss the raised leg or ankle during movement for added sensation.

5. Elephant Position ✨

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Action

The woman lies face down on the bed with her legs together. The man lies on top of her from behind. He supports himself on his arms. This creates a close fit and lots of body contact.

Pro-Tip

The woman can slightly lift her hips by putting a pillow underneath them.

Spicy Twist

Try this one after a shower when skin is still warm.

6. Suspended Position 🌶️

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Action

The man stands next to the bed or against a wall. The woman jumps up and wraps her legs around his waist. He holds her by the thighs or buttocks. Move together while he supports her weight.

Pro-Tip

Make sure you have good balance before you start. Stop if either person gets tired.

Spicy Twist

Use a doorway for better leverage if the bed is too low.

7. Pressed Position 🌶️

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Action

The woman lies on her back and pulls her knees all the way to her shoulders. The man gets on top and presses her legs down with his body weight. This allows for very deep penetration.

Pro-Tip

Only go as far as the woman finds comfortable. Check in frequently to make sure it feels right.

Spicy Twist

Combine this with slow circular movements instead of straight thrusts.

8. Rising Position 🌶️

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Action

The woman lies on the edge of the bed with her legs raised in the air. The man stands on the floor in front of her. He holds her legs or ankles while moving forward. This works well for different heights.

Pro-Tip

A sturdy bed height makes this easier. You can adjust by bending the woman's knees more or less.

Spicy Twist

The woman can use her hands to touch herself at the same time.

Final Tip

These positions give you options to celebrate your anniversary in a physical way. Pick two or three that appeal to both of you. The key is communication and taking your time.

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