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Many couples like to play video games in the same room. After a session they sometimes want to get physical with each other. These eight positions provide specific instructions for how to do that. You can try them without leaving your home. The steps tell you where to put your bodies and how to move. Check with your partner before you switch to a new position. Some work better on a bed while others use a chair. The important thing is to go at a pace that suits you both.
Action
You sit down on a chair or bed edge. Your partner gets on your lap facing toward you. They wrap their legs around you. Hold each other and rock your hips together slowly. This lets you see each other and kiss.
Pro-Tip
Keep your feet planted for stability. Try a different chair if the height feels wrong.
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Pause all movement for ten seconds while looking at each other then resume.
After dark
Action
Your partner gets on all fours on the bed. You position yourself behind on your knees. Hold their hips with both hands. Move your hips forward and back. Change speed based on feedback.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow under their head and knees to reduce strain.
Spicy Twist
Reach forward and touch their back or shoulders while you keep rhythm.
Action
Sit on the floor or bed with legs crossed. Your partner sits in your lap facing you with legs around your body. Hold them close. Make small circular movements with your hips.
Pro-Tip
Use your hands to support their weight if they start to tire.
Spicy Twist
Breathe in sync with each other for the first few minutes.
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Lie flat on your back on the bed. Your partner straddles you facing you. They put hands on your chest. They move their hips up and down or in circles. Hold their hips to guide.
Pro-Tip
Bend your knees to give them something to lean against.
Spicy Twist
Have them turn to face the other way for a new angle.
Action
Lie down on your side. Your partner lies in front of you on their side too. They press back against you. Lift their top leg slightly if needed. Move with small thrusts.
Pro-Tip
Curl your body against theirs to maintain full contact.
Spicy Twist
Use your top hand to touch them in front.
Action
Your partner lies on their back. You get on top facing them. They wrap legs around your back. Support your body with your arms. Move your hips up and down.
Pro-Tip
Keep your arms straight to avoid putting too much weight on them.
Spicy Twist
Have them lift their legs higher onto your shoulders.
After dark
Action
Stand facing your partner. They wrap one leg around your waist. Hold their leg and back. Use a wall for balance. Move together while standing.
Pro-Tip
Test your balance before you fully commit to movement.
Spicy Twist
Switch which leg they lift halfway through.
Action
Your partner lies on their back near the edge of the bed. You stand on the floor in front. Lift their legs or rest them on your shoulders. Adjust how far they are on the bed.
Pro-Tip
Use a pillow under their hips to get the right height.
Spicy Twist
Vary how deep each thrust goes.
Final Tip
Pick one or two positions next time you finish gaming. They fit into a normal night at home. Talk afterward about what worked for each of you.
Common Questions
Yes. Start with the side spooning or missionary. Talk to your partner and move slowly at first.
Use your gaming chair for seated ones. Keep the lights low like during game night.
A pillow helps with comfort and height in some positions. Soft surfaces also reduce strain.
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