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On your anniversary you have time to spend together without rushing. These eight positions come from the Kama Sutra and are adjusted for normal couples. Read the steps before you get started. You might want to pick your favorite two or three for the night. Set the mood with music if you want. Most of them work on a regular bed. Focus on how the positions feel and what your partner says. Communicate clearly about what works and what does not.
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Action
Sit facing each other on the bed. Cross your legs and have your partner sit in your lap. Wrap your legs around each other. Hold each other with your arms and rock your bodies together slowly. This allows for lots of touching.
Pro-Tip
Sit on the edge of the bed if your legs get numb. Support each other's weight with your arms.
Spicy Twist
Run your hands over your partner's back and neck during the rocking.
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Action
Lie on your side facing away from your partner. They lie behind you in the same direction. They enter you from behind while you stay pressed close. This position requires very little effort from either person.
Pro-Tip
Bend your top leg slightly at the knee to make entry simpler for your partner.
Spicy Twist
Reach behind you to touch their body or guide their hand.
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Final Tip
Pick two or three positions to try on your anniversary. Go at a pace that feels good for both of you. Talk about them afterward to see what you want to repeat next time.
Common Questions
The side spooning and missionary with lift are good starting points. They require little flexibility or strength and let you go slowly.
These positions give you specific actions to follow together. You end up spending more time paying attention to what your partner likes.
No special equipment is needed. All eight positions can be done on a normal bed without anything extra.
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