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Couple in various positions during reunion

Positions for Long Distance Reunions

You have waited months to be in the same room again. These eight positions give you a place to start. They focus on being close and taking it slow at first. You can do them in your own home without any special tools. Pay attention to how your body and your partner's body respond. Talk about what you like and do not like. This helps make the reunion better. Start with the easier positions and see how it feels before you try the more challenging ones.

1. Missionary Position ✨

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Action

You lie on your back. Your partner gets on top facing you. You can see each other and control the speed together. It works well when you want to start easy after a long time apart. Put your hands on his back or shoulders to feel close.

Pro-Tip

Keep eye contact to stay in the moment and tell each other if you want to go faster or slower or change the angle slightly.

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Wrap your legs around him for a tighter fit and pull him closer with your hands on his back during the motion.

2. Seated Position ✨

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Action

Sit facing each other with your legs wrapped around one another. This lets you hold each other tight. You move together at your own rhythm. It is good for talking and kissing while you get comfortable again.

Pro-Tip

Use your arms to pull each other closer and make small adjustments until the position feels stable for both of you.

Spicy Twist

Rock back and forth instead of bouncing to control the pace and keep full body contact the entire time.

3. Side Spoon ✨

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Action

Lie on your sides facing the same direction. He enters from behind while you stay close. This feels safe and relaxed. You can reach back to touch him or just hold hands. It is low effort after a long separation.

Pro-Tip

Bend your knees slightly for better angle and add a small shift in position if one side starts to feel uncomfortable.

Spicy Twist

Turn your head for more kissing and let the person behind run their hands along your side and chest.

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4. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

He lies down. You straddle him and face forward or backward. You set the pace completely. This helps if you want to lead after being apart. It also lets you stop and start as you like.

Pro-Tip

Lean forward or back to change the feeling and use your hands on his chest for balance and extra contact.

Spicy Twist

Have him sit up so you face each other closely and can kiss while continuing the motion together.

5. Rear Entry 🌶️

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Action

You get on all fours. Your partner kneels behind you. This gives deeper feeling. It works if you want something more intense later on. You can lower to your elbows to adjust height.

Pro-Tip

Use a pillow under your hips for comfort and to adjust the angle to what feels best during the activity.

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He can hold your waist to guide movement while you both find a rhythm that works well for the two of you.

6. Standing Position ✨

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Action

Stand facing each other. He lifts one of your legs or you wrap both around him if strong enough. Lean against a wall for balance. This is for when you cannot wait to get to the bed.

Pro-Tip

Keep one foot on the floor for stability and switch legs if one gets tired from holding the position.

Spicy Twist

Try it in the shower if you both like water and have enough room to stand comfortably together.

7. Side Straddle ✨

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Action

Lie on your sides facing each other. Lift one leg over him. This allows for close eye contact and easy kissing. You can move gently without much energy. Good middle step in the night.

Pro-Tip

Adjust your leg height for what feels right and add pillows nearby if you need support for your back or head.

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Switch who is on top of the leg position after a few minutes to give each person a different experience.

8. Hip Lift ✨

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Action

You lie on your back with hips raised. He kneels between your legs. The angle hits different spots. It gives good access for both of you to move together.

Pro-Tip

Keep movements small at the start and communicate if the position puts too much strain on your lower back.

Spicy Twist

Add a toy if you have one handy and take turns using it on each other before continuing with the position.

Final Tip

Pick a couple of these to try next time you meet. Pay attention to what feels best for both of you. The important part is being together and communicating clearly.

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