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You just got married and want to keep things interesting in the bedroom. These eight positions are good for beginners. They come from the Kama Sutra but we made them easy. You can do them all in your own bed. Start by picking one that looks comfortable. Talk with your partner before and during to make sure it feels good for both. Use slow movements at first. Pay attention to how your bodies fit together. Some positions give you more control. Others make you feel very close. Have fun and do not worry about doing them perfectly.
Action
You and your partner sit facing each other on the bed. Wrap your legs around each other. Hold each other with your arms. Rock your bodies together in a slow rhythm. This position is good for kissing and talking to each other.
Pro-Tip
Keep a pillow behind your back for extra support if needed. This helps you stay in the position longer without getting tired.
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Whisper to each other during the movement.
Action
The man lies on his back on the bed. The woman gets on top facing him. She moves her hips up and down or in circles. The man can touch her body with his hands while she sets the pace.
Pro-Tip
The woman can change her angle by leaning forward or backward to see what feels best.
Spicy Twist
The man can sit up to change the position slightly.
Action
The woman lies on her stomach. The man lies on top of her. Both keep their legs straight. He enters from behind. This creates a close feeling and good pressure.
Pro-Tip
Use your arms to support some of your weight so it stays comfortable.
Spicy Twist
The woman can lift her hips slightly for a different angle.
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Action
The woman lies on her back. She raises one leg and rests it on her partner's shoulder. The man kneels in front of her. Switch legs after a few minutes to keep it even.
Pro-Tip
Hold the raised leg with your hand to keep it in place during movement.
Spicy Twist
Add a gentle pull on the leg to build the movement.
Action
Both of you lie on your sides facing the same direction. The man stays behind the woman. He enters from behind. It is easy to hold each other in this position.
Pro-Tip
Bend your knees a little for better alignment between your bodies.
Spicy Twist
The woman can reach back to touch her partner.
Action
The woman lies on her back. Put a pillow under her hips to lift them up. The man kneels between her legs and pulls her toward him. This gives a good angle for both of you.
Pro-Tip
Make sure the pillow is firm enough to hold the position steady.
Spicy Twist
The man can stand at the edge of the bed instead of kneeling.
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Action
The woman lies on her back. She puts both legs on her partner's shoulders. The man leans forward from a kneeling position. This makes the space tighter and the sensations stronger.
Pro-Tip
Go slow because this position can go deep quickly.
Spicy Twist
The woman can cross her ankles for more pressure.
Action
The woman lies on her back and pulls her knees toward her chest. She holds her legs in that position. The man comes in from above in a kneeling stance. Keep movements short and steady.
Pro-Tip
Communicate if the position feels too intense for either person.
Spicy Twist
The man can hold her feet near his chest.
Final Tip
These positions give you a good starting point as newlyweds. Keep trying different ones until you find favorites. Always communicate with your partner about what you like.
Common Questions
Not all of them. Start with the easier ones like spooning. Take your time and stop if anything feels uncomfortable.
Talk about it first. Choose one position together. Set aside 20 minutes when you will not be interrupted.
They let you try new things. You learn more about what your partner likes. This can make your time together better.
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