Date ideas
The mood for sex can come at any time. These positions need no special setup. They work in the kitchen, hallway or bedroom. Stand near a wall or sit on a chair. Look at each other while you do them. Use your hands to show what to do next. One person can begin the motion. The other can match it. They take little time to begin. They fit when your schedule is full. Choose what room to use based on where you are.
Action
You stand and face each other. He lifts one of her legs to his side. He enters her. Hold each other to stay up. Use a wall if you start to fall. Move your hips back and forth. Keep one hand on her back.
Pro-Tip
This works after you finish a meal in the kitchen. Say out loud what you want him to do. No need to walk to another room.
Spicy Twist
Put a piece of cloth over her eyes. Use fingers on her before you enter.
After dark
Action
She turns to the wall and bends at the waist. He stands behind her and enters. He puts his hands on her hips. She can move back toward him. She changes how far apart her feet are to alter the feel.
Pro-Tip
Use this in the hallway when time is short. Ask her if the height is right. It can lead to more time later in bed.
Spicy Twist
Tap her butt a few times while you move. Pull on her hair a little if she says yes.
Action
He sits down on the front of a chair. She faces him and sits down on him. Her legs go around his back. She moves her body up and down or in circles. He holds her butt to help.
Pro-Tip
Pick a chair in the living room. Keep your eyes open and look at each other. You can switch who decides how fast to go.
Spicy Twist
Use your mouth on her chest area while she moves. Stop just before you both finish.
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Action
You both lie on your sides. Her back is to his front. He enters her from that position. One of his arms goes over her side. He moves slowly. His hand goes to the front of her body.
Pro-Tip
Use this when you are already in bed. It does not take much strength. Stay in place after you finish.
Spicy Twist
Add a small toy against her if you want. Talk to her in a quiet voice.
After dark
Action
He lies down on his back. She sits on him but faces the other way. Her hands rest on his legs. She moves her hips around or up and down. He sees everything from his spot.
Pro-Tip
This gives her the chance to choose the movements. Say words to let her know it feels good. The shower can make it different.
Spicy Twist
Touch the area near her back if she agrees. Keep the movements slow on purpose.
Maximum heat
Action
She lies on her back on the bed. Her legs rest on his shoulders. He kneels in front of her and enters. A pillow goes under her hips. He keeps his movements even.
Pro-Tip
Sit at the edge of the bed for this one. Have some lube ready in case. The angle makes some areas feel different.
Spicy Twist
Use one hand to hold her arms down. Go faster when you hear her react.
After dark
Action
She stands and bends forward with her hands on her knees. He stands behind her and enters. He holds her sides with both hands. He uses fast short movements. He can speed up over time.
Pro-Tip
The shower or a doorway is a good place. Hold her legs to stay in position. This one finishes tension from the day.
Spicy Twist
Put your hand between her legs while you do it. See if she reaches the end.
Action
He sits on the floor with his legs crossed. She sits facing him and puts her legs around him. He enters her. You move your bodies back and forth in small motions. Your arms hold each other close.
Pro-Tip
Try this on the bedroom floor when you have a few minutes. Do not rush the speed. Stay in the hold the whole time.
Spicy Twist
Run a piece of ice on her skin. She can tighten her muscles around him.
Final Tip
Pick one position and do it today. Start by kissing then get into position. You will learn what you both like. Do the ones you like again. Ask your partner for their thoughts after.
Common Questions
Yes. Move slowly at first. Tell your partner if something does not feel right. Hold onto furniture for extra balance.
See what your partner does. Put your hands on them to move into place. Practice one time so it goes smoother later.
No. They use things already in your home. Nothing extra is required for most of them.
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