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Kama Sutra Tips for Long Distance Couples

Long distance can make physical closeness difficult. Try Kama Sutra positions during video calls to stay close. You and your partner get into the same poses at the same time and match your movements. Set up your device to show your body clearly. Talk about what you are doing as you go. This gives you a routine and something new to try. Practice the timing until it feels natural. Pick positions that fit your space.

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1. Prepare The Call

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Find a private room and place your device on a stable surface. Adjust the angle so your partner sees your full body. Check your internet speed. Ask your partner to set up the same way. This preparation avoids problems during the session.

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Do a five minute test call to fix the camera position and sound quality and lighting before you start the main activity.

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Share one thing you miss about being in the same room with your partner before you begin the first pose on the call.

2. Try Missionary Pose

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Lie on your back on the bed with your knees bent and feet flat. Point the camera toward your body. Have your partner lie in the same position. Move your hips slowly up and down at the same time.

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Use a pillow under your lower back if you want more support for your hips during the movement and to change the angle slightly.

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Tell your partner exactly what you would be doing with your hands if you were there with them in person.

3. do Spooning Pose

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Lie on your side facing the camera with your legs slightly bent. Position the device to capture your front side. Have your partner get into the same side lying position. Rock your hips forward together in slow motions.

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Keep your movements small at first until you both get used to matching the rhythm on the call and can see each other well.

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Talk about a specific memory of being in this position together in the past and how it felt at the time.

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4. Sit in Lotus

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Sit on the floor or bed with your legs crossed and back straight. Face the camera directly. Your partner sits in the same crossed leg way. Gently rock your torso back and forth while you maintain eye contact.

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Placing a pillow under your seat can make this seated position more comfortable for longer periods of time on the call.

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Try to maintain steady eye contact as long as possible without looking away from the screen during the rocking motion.

5. Show Doggy Pose 🌶️

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Position yourself on your hands and knees on the bed. Set the camera behind you at an angle that shows the movement. Your partner does the same pose on their side. Push your hips back and forth in a steady rhythm.

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Make sure you have enough space around you so you do not hit anything while moving in this position on the call.

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Change the speed of your movements after every ten seconds to see how your partner responds on the call.

6. Take Cowgirl Role 🌶️

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Kneel on the bed or floor above the camera view. Face toward the device so your partner can see your front. Have your partner lie on their back facing up. Move your hips in circles or up and down.

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Practice the motion a few times alone so you know how it looks on camera before the call starts with your partner.

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Give verbal instructions to your partner about what they should do on their end at the same time as you move.

7. Hold Bridge Pose

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Lie on your back with knees bent and lift your hips high off the surface. Support your weight on your shoulders and feet. Have your partner lift into the bridge position too. Make small rocking motions with your hips.

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Keep your breathing steady and tell your partner when you need to lower down for a break from the position.

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See who can hold the raised position the longest during the video call without breaking form or lowering down.

8. Mimic Wheelbarrow 🌶️

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Get on the floor and lift your legs up as if being held. Use a wall or edge for support if needed. Position the camera to capture your body. Have your partner mimic the leg lift on their side.

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Modify the pose to fit your space and ability so neither of you gets tired too fast during the call.

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Switch roles after a few minutes so both of you get to try leading the movement on the video call.

Final Tip

Try one position per call at first to get comfortable with the format. These ideas give you a way to share physical moments even when apart. Adjust them to fit your preferences and talk about the experience after.

Common Questions

How do I prepare for a virtual Kama Sutra session?

Choose a private space with good lighting and a stable surface for your device. Test the video connection and camera angle ahead of time. Discuss which positions you want to try with your partner first.

Does virtual Kama Sutra really improve long-distance relationships?

It gives you a shared activity that involves movement and communication. Many couples find it helps them feel closer and gives them topics to talk about later.

What are quick tips for syncing during video poses?

Count out loud together to begin each movement at the same moment. Start slow and watch your partner's screen carefully. Communication is key to getting the timing right.

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