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Newlyweds in various kamasutra positions

Kamasutra Positions for Newlyweds

Newlyweds can try these eight positions at home. Each one shows exactly how to place your bodies. They work even if you have not tried them before. Pick a time when you have thirty minutes alone. Set up on the bed and follow the steps. Stop and adjust if something does not feel good. Talk about the position before you start. Most need nothing extra. Go through the list one at a time over the next weeks.

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1. Lotus Position

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Action

You both sit on the bed facing one another. Cross your legs in front of you. The woman wraps her legs around the man's waist. Move your bodies close so he can enter her. Wrap your arms around each other. Rock your hips gently back and forth. Breathe in the same pattern to stay together.

Pro-Tip

Hold eye contact the entire time. If you lose the rhythm just stop and start again. See each other's reactions right away.

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Kiss your partner on the neck and shoulders while you continue to rock. Change the rocking speed based on what feels better.

2. Reverse Straddle 🌶️

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Action

The man lies flat on his back on the bed. The woman climbs on top with her back to him. She bends her knees and leans forward on her hands. She moves her hips up and down. He can lift his hips to meet her movements.

Pro-Tip

Discuss the speed and depth you both prefer before you begin. The woman can adjust her body position easily in this one.

Spicy Twist

The woman can reach her hand back to touch his legs or other areas.

3. Improve Missionary 🌶️

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Action

The woman lies on her back and brings her knees up to her chest. The man kneels in front of her between her legs. He enters her in this position. Put a pillow under her hips to change the height. He controls the thrusts with his hips.

Pro-Tip

This position is good for talking. Ask your partner what depth feels best. Adjust the pillow until the angle is right.

Spicy Twist

The woman can use her legs to pull the man closer during the movements.

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4. From Behind 🌶️

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Action

The woman gets on her hands and knees on the mattress. The man kneels behind her and holds onto her hips. He enters her from that direction. Start with very slow movements. Increase the speed only when both of you are ready. She can lower her head or arms.

Pro-Tip

Check with her frequently to see if the angle is comfortable. You can change how far apart your knees are.

Spicy Twist

The man can run his hands along her back and sides while he moves.

5. Side Spoon

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Action

Lie down on your sides in the same direction with the man behind the woman. He lifts her top leg a small amount. He enters her from behind in this position. Keep your bodies pressed together. Move your hips in a slow and steady way.

Pro-Tip

This position is useful when you are not very energetic. You can stay in it for a long time and talk about your day.

Spicy Twist

Use your top hand to touch her chest or stomach area while moving.

6. Woman on Top 🌶️

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Action

The man lies on his back with his legs straight. The woman sits on top of him facing toward his head. She puts her feet on the bed and moves her body up and down. She decides how fast to go. Put a pillow under the man's back if needed.

Pro-Tip

The woman should experiment with different angles by leaning her body. The man can hold her hips to help with balance.

Spicy Twist

She can turn her body around to face the other way without getting off.

7. Sixty Nine 🌶️

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8. Hip Bridge 🌶️

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Final Tip

Try one position each week. Talk after you finish about what worked. This lets you learn what you both like. Keep trying new ones when you are ready.

Common Questions

Are Kamasutra positions okay for beginners?

Yes they are. Start with the easier ones. Change them to fit your bodies. Talk and go slow.

How can newlyweds make the positions more enjoyable?

Look at each other. Keep the room lights low. Use your words to tell your partner what you like.

What if one partner lacks flexibility?

Use a pillow for support where needed. Only do what your body allows. It gets easier with time.

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