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Newlyweds can try these eight positions at home. Each one has clear steps for both of you. Draw a card from a deck to choose the order. Your bedroom works fine for all of them. Keep pillows close by. Talk about what feels right after each one. Adjust anything that does not work. Some positions keep one person still. Others have both people move. Pick a time when you have an hour free.
Action
She lies on her back on the bed. You lie on top facing her. Place yourself between her legs. Enter her. Move your hips up and down. Keep your body weight on your elbows. Look at her face.
Pro-Tip
Put a pillow under her hips at the start. This makes the angle different. Ask if the speed is good.
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She can lift her knees toward her chest. You can kiss her during the movements.
Action
You lie on your back on the bed. She sits on top of you facing you. She uses her legs to move up and down. You can place your hands on her hips or waist. She decides the speed of the movements.
Pro-Tip
She can lean in different directions. You can push up from the bed with your hips. See which way feels best.
Spicy Twist
She puts her hands on your chest for balance. Move together at the same pace.
Action
You lie on your back. She sits on top but faces your feet. She moves her hips up and down or in circles. You hold her hips with your hands. You can lift your head to watch.
Pro-Tip
This works after you have done the second position. Change how she leans until it feels right for both.
Spicy Twist
You reach your hands around to her front. She can bend forward at the waist.
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Action
She gets on her hands and knees on the bed. You kneel directly behind her. Hold her hips with both hands. Enter her from that position. Move your hips forward and back. Start at a slow speed.
Pro-Tip
Make sure her knees have padding. You can pull her hips toward you on each move. Check her comfort level often.
Spicy Twist
She can lower down to rest on her elbows. You can put one hand on her back.
Action
You both lie on your sides on the bed. You stay behind her in the same direction. Lift her top leg a little with your hand. Enter her from behind. Put your arm over her body. Move slowly.
Pro-Tip
This one does not take much energy. You can do it in the morning or at night. Hold her in place with your arm.
Spicy Twist
Use your top hand to touch her body in front. Kiss the back of her neck.
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Action
You sit on the bed with crossed legs. She faces you and sits on your lap. She wraps her legs around your back. You both hold each other with your arms. Rock your bodies together in small movements.
Pro-Tip
You may need to practice getting into this one. Use the wall for back support if it helps you stay up.
Spicy Twist
Stay in the position without moving much. Focus on holding each other tight.
Action
She stands and bends over the side of the bed. Her chest rests on the mattress. You stand on the floor behind her. Hold her hips. Enter her and move your hips. Keep your feet apart for balance.
Pro-Tip
The bed height must match your bodies. Bend your knees if you need to. This position does not last very long.
Spicy Twist
She can spread her feet wider apart. You can hold one of her arms gently.
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Action
You lie on the bed so your head is near her lower body and her head is near yours. She lies on top of you. Use your mouths to please each other. You can also use your hands at the same time. Match the speed.
Pro-Tip
A pillow under the head of the person on bottom helps. Take turns being on top if one side gets tired.
Spicy Twist
Pause the movements for a few seconds then start again. This makes it last longer.
Final Tip
Try a few of these positions this week. Note which ones you both like. Change the order next time if you want. This gives you something specific to do together in the bedroom. Repeat the ones you enjoy most.
Common Questions
They work well for new couples. Begin with the first few. Use the pillows and talk about the fit.
Spend five to ten minutes on each. This lets you try several in one evening. Switch if one is not working.
No special equipment is required. The bed and pillows are enough. You can add other things later if you want.
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