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Long Distance Video Call Poses

Living far from your partner makes it tough to stay in touch physically. These poses give you clear actions to do on video calls. Perform them by yourself at home and show them on camera or send pictures. Each one tells you how to position your body. They require no special tools. Pick a private time. Check the lighting. Follow the steps. Tell your partner what you are thinking. This makes your calls different. It gives you something to share until you are together again.

1. Side Lie Position ✨

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Action

Lie on your side on the bed. Support your head with one arm. Bend the top leg at the knee. Look toward the camera. Run your free hand down your side slowly. Hold the pose and talk about your day.

Pro-Tip

Try this during an evening call when you both feel relaxed. Ask your partner to describe what they see and what they like about it.

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Lower one shoulder strap slowly. Tell them how you would like their hand on that spot when you meet.

2. Raised Leg Position ✨

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Action

Sit with your back against a wall. Lift one leg straight up high. Point your toes forward. Place both hands on the raised leg. Breathe slowly five times while you look at the camera.

Pro-Tip

Check the form in a mirror before you start the call. Talk about something good from your week first.

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Wear knee high socks. Explain where you would wrap that leg around them when you are together.

3. Kneeling Arch Position 🌶️

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Action

Kneel on the bed with your knees apart. Put your hands on your thighs. Push your hips forward and arch your back. Tilt your head back with your mouth slightly open.

Pro-Tip

Take several deep breaths to feel steady. Send a short message about the call once it ends.

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Lift the bottom of your shirt a bit. Describe what you want them to do with their hands here.

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4. Hip Lift Position 🌶️

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Action

Place a pillow under your hips. Lean back on your elbows. Spread your knees and bend them. Lift your pelvis up. Trace small circles on your inner thighs with your fingers.

Pro-Tip

The pillow makes this pose easier to hold for a longer time. Match your movements to what your partner says on the call.

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Move your hips in small circles. Say you wish they were there to feel the motion.

5. Mirror Position ✨

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Action

Stand sideways in front of a mirror. Put one hand on your hip. Use the other hand to touch your hair. Lean forward slightly. Take the photo that shows your profile and reflection.

Pro-Tip

Send the picture at an unexpected time. Ask later which poses they liked so you can repeat them.

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Cover your eyes with a cloth. Ask them to tell you what to do in the next pose.

6. Shoulder Look Position 🌶️

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Action

Sit with your back to the camera. Turn your head to look over one shoulder. Cross your arms under your chest to lift it. Move your hips side to side gently.

Pro-Tip

Use this pose at the start of the call. It hides some parts at first and adds interest for later.

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Lower yourself onto your hands and knees. Ask them to describe what they see from their side.

7. Back View Lift 🌶️

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Action

Stand with your back to the camera. Hook your thumbs into your underwear. Pull it down slowly to show skin. Turn your upper body to look back with a smile.

Pro-Tip

Pay attention to how your partner reacts during the call. Change the speed based on what they tell you.

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Go down to your knees from this position. Tell them this view is just for them.

8. Slow Turn Position 🌶️

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Action

Stand in the middle of the frame with your arms raised. Turn around slowly in one direction. Pause at each side to show your shape. Move your hips as you turn.

Pro-Tip

Record the movement as a short video. Send it along with a song that you both know and like.

Spicy Twist

Let a loose shirt fall open during the turn. Face them directly at the end.

Final Tip

Pick three poses to try on your next call. You can do them live or send the pictures. A pillow helps in some positions for better angle. These give you new ways to spend time on calls.

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