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Your anniversary calls for time in bed together. These eight positions give you clear ways to have sex that night. You can stay home and use your own bed. Six positions need nothing but your bodies. The other two use a pillow to make angles better. Read the steps before you start so you know what to do. Move slowly at first to find what feels right. Ask your partner what they like as you go. This helps avoid awkward moments.
Action
Lie on your back with knees bent. Your partner lies on top facing you. Wrap your legs around them if you want. They move their hips while you stay in place. You can kiss and touch their back easily.
Pro-Tip
Put a pillow under your lower back at the start. This raises your hips and makes the position more comfortable for longer.
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Look at each other the whole time and tell them when it feels good.
Action
Both lie on your sides facing the same way. Your partner stays behind you and enters from that angle. Keep your knees slightly bent. They can put one arm around you while you move together.
Pro-Tip
Bend your knees more if needed. This helps line up your bodies and makes the motion smoother without extra work.
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Reach your hand back to touch their leg or side as you move.
Action
Your partner lies flat on their back. You straddle them facing forward and lower yourself down. Control the speed and depth with your legs. Lean forward or back to change how it feels inside.
Pro-Tip
Place your hands on their chest for balance. This keeps you steady and stops you from getting tired too quickly.
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Move your hips in small circles instead of straight up and down.
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Action
Get on your hands and knees on the bed. Your partner kneels behind you and holds your hips. They enter and control the thrusting. You can lower your chest down to the mattress if you like.
Pro-Tip
Keep your knees apart at a comfortable width. This gives better stability and reduces any strain on your wrists.
Spicy Twist
Arch your back down to adjust the angle during movement.
Action
Sit facing each other on the bed. Wrap your legs around their back while they sit with legs crossed. Hold each other with your arms. Rock back and forth together slowly.
Pro-Tip
Sit on the edge of the bed if the floor feels too hard on your legs or back.
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Pull each other closer with your arms as you rock.
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Action
Stand facing each other near a wall. Lift one leg and wrap it around them while they hold it. Lean back against the wall for support. Move your hips together in short motions.
Pro-Tip
Keep one foot on the floor the whole time. This gives better balance and prevents any falls.
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Action
Lie on your back and raise both legs straight in the air. Your partner holds your ankles or calves while they stand or kneel in front. They control the speed and depth of movement.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow under your bottom before lifting your legs. It reduces pressure on your lower back.
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Have them rub the bottoms of your feet while holding your legs.
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Action
Your partner lies on their back. You get on top facing their feet instead of their face. Lower down and move your hips up and down. They see your back and can hold your waist.
Pro-Tip
Hold their legs for balance so you do not slide forward too much.
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Lean all the way forward and rest your chest on their legs.
Final Tip
Try a couple of these on your night together. See which ones you both enjoy most. Remember to talk about what worked and what did not. You can use the good ones again soon.
Common Questions
Missionary and spooning work best for beginners. They do not require much strength or balance. You can stop and change easily if needed.
Most positions need no props at all. Two of them feel better with a pillow to lift the hips.
Change your speed from slow to fast. Add touching with your hands in different spots. Keep your eyes open and watch each other.
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