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Pillow Wrestling Games for Couples

Most couples look for simple ways to have fun in the bedroom. Pillow wrestling games let you do that with things you already have. Use pillows to push or hit lightly. Set rules first like no head hits. The games take little time to learn. Play them on the bed or floor. They get you moving around your partner. Pick one when you have some free time. Adjust how rough the play is. It is an easy way to spend active time together.

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1. Basic Pillow Fight

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Action

Face your partner on the bed with one pillow each. Take turns swinging them lightly at shoulders. Try to make the other lose balance. Aim for upper body only. Play three rounds. The winner of the most rounds chooses what to do next.

Pro-Tip

Clear the bed of other objects first to avoid accidents. Take turns deciding the rules for each round. Drink water between games to stay comfortable.

Spicy Twist

The loser of each round gives the winner a ten second massage on the back or shoulders.

2. Sumo Pillow Push

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3. Pillow Tag Chase

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Action

One player holds a pillow and moves around the room. The other tries to tag them using their pillow. Switch roles after a tag. Keep movements slow to stay safe. Play for five minutes. This game keeps both of you in constant motion.

Pro-Tip

Use the bed as the main area to limit the space. Have socks on for better grip on the floor. Call time out if you get too out of breath.

Spicy Twist

When you tag your partner pull them in for a close hug that lasts ten seconds.

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4. Fort Battle

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5. Roll Tumble 🌶️

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6. Pillow Hold Contest 🌶️

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7. Role Play Match

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8. Pillow Pile Match

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Final Tip

These games offer a simple way to add play to your bedroom time. Try one this week with your partner. Adjust them to fit your preferences. They provide a good mix of laughs and movement.

Common Questions

Are these pillow wrestling games safe for couples?

Yes if you set rules first and keep contact light. Stay on the bed and avoid hitting heads or necks. Stop immediately if anyone feels discomfort.

What kind of pillows should we use?

Soft regular bed pillows work best. They provide cushion without being too firm. Have at least two or three available so you can switch during the games.

How do we turn wrestling into foreplay?

Let the games create opportunities for touch. Slow down the action between rounds. Use the close positions to add kisses or caresses as you play.

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