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Sex Positions for Newlyweds

You and your spouse are newly married. This is a great time to explore sex positions together. The eight ideas here are practical and do not require any special equipment. They range from face to face positions that let you see each other to ones from behind. The main thing is to go at your own speed and check in with each other often. Some are relaxing while others take a bit more energy. Have fun finding your favorites as you start this new chapter.

1. Improve Missionary ✨

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Action

The receiving partner lies on their back with a pillow under their hips. The other partner lies on top facing them. This setup changes the angle for better contact. It allows for kissing and eye contact during the act.

Pro-Tip

Choose a firm pillow that will not flatten under weight. Bend your knees to reduce pressure on the lower back.

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The person on bottom can wrap their legs around their partner to control the movement somewhat.

2. Woman on Top ✨

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Action

One partner lies flat on their back. The other straddles them facing forward and controls the motion by moving up and down. This position lets the top partner decide the speed and depth.

Pro-Tip

The bottom partner can help by holding the hips or providing upward movement. Try leaning forward or backward for different sensations.

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The top partner can lean down for kissing or the bottom partner can touch the chest and stomach.

3. Doggy Style ✨

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Action

One partner gets on hands and knees. The other partner enters from behind on their knees. This allows for deep penetration and easy movement. Hold the hips for stability.

Pro-Tip

The receiving partner can lower their upper body onto their elbows to change the angle of entry.

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The partner in back can reach around to provide additional stimulation at the same time.

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4. Side by Side Spooning ✨

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Action

Both partners lie on their sides in the same direction. The behind partner enters from the back. This is a relaxed position that requires little effort and allows for cuddling at the same time.

Pro-Tip

The front partner can bend their top knee to make entry easier. This works well when you are tired but still want to be close.

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Reach around to touch sensitive areas or whisper to each other during the act.

5. Lotus Position 🌶️

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Action

Sit facing your partner with your legs wrapped around each other. The penetrating partner sits with crossed legs while the other sits in their lap. Move together in a rocking motion.

Pro-Tip

This position works best on a soft surface like a bed. Hold each other for balance and to stay close.

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Maintain eye contact and synchronize your breathing with your partner to feel more connected.

6. Reverse Cowgirl ✨

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Action

One partner lies on their back. The other straddles facing away from them. The top partner moves up and down or grinds in circles. This gives a different feeling and angle.

Pro-Tip

The bottom partner can hold the top partner's waist or bottom for support. The top partner can lean forward or back.

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The bottom partner has a good view and can touch the back or bottom.

7. Standing Position 🌶️

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Action

Both partners stand facing each other. One lifts a leg while the other holds it. Use a wall for balance during penetration. This position is good for shorter sessions.

Pro-Tip

Make sure you have good footing. The standing partner should bend their knees slightly to match heights.

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Try this in the shower for a change of location if you have a sturdy surface.

8. Pretzel Position ✨

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Action

The receiving partner lies on their back with one leg extended and the other bent. The other partner kneels between the legs and lifts one leg over their shoulder. This creates a tight fit.

Pro-Tip

Go slow at first to get into the position. Adjust leg placement until it feels comfortable for both.

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The angle in this position allows good access for additional manual stimulation during sex.

Final Tip

Trying these positions can make your first months as a married couple more interesting. Focus on what feels good rather than doing them perfectly. Keep communication open and enjoy the time together.

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