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Prepare your bedroom like a small spa. Dim the lights and warm up some oil for a back rub. Take turns massaging shoulders and legs to loosen tight muscles. Once relaxed move into these positions that need little effort. Focus on slow motions and how your skin feels together. Use towels on the bed and keep things at a calm pace. These work well when you want to stay close and connected.
Action
Lie on your back while your partner lies on top facing you. Wrap your legs around their waist and hold their shoulders. Rock your hips slowly instead of using fast thrusts. This keeps you close for kissing and eye contact.
Pro-Tip
Place a pillow under your hips to change the angle slightly. This reduces back strain and makes the position more comfortable.
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Guide their hips with your hands to set the exact rhythm you like.
Action
Both lie on your sides facing the same direction. The person behind enters while holding your waist. Bend your knees a bit for easier access. Stay pressed together and move in small motions.
Pro-Tip
Wrap one arm around your partner to stay connected. This position needs almost no energy so you can take your time.
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Reach back to touch them while they move against you.
Action
Sit facing each other on the bed with legs wrapped around. One person can lean against the headboard. Rock your hips together in small circles. Your hands stay free to touch faces and chests.
Pro-Tip
Add cushions behind the back for better support. Adjust your leg positions until the height feels right for both.
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Whisper to each other about what feels good right then.
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Action
One person lies flat on their stomach. Put a pillow under the hips for a slight lift. The other lies on top and enters from behind. Use grinding motions instead of big thrusts for full contact.
Pro-Tip
Choose a firm pillow that gives the right height without discomfort. Keep your bodies straight and aligned.
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The top partner can kiss the back of the neck and shoulders.
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Action
Lie on your sides head to toe facing each other. Use your mouths on each other at the same time. Support your head with one arm. This lets you both receive pleasure without much movement.
Pro-Tip
Use small pillows under your heads if your necks get tired. Take short breaks and switch sides when needed.
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Use your hands to add touch while your mouths stay busy.
Action
One partner lies on their back. The other straddles facing them and lowers down. Move your hips up and down or in circles at your own speed. Lean forward to rest on their chest if you want.
Pro-Tip
Hold hands with your partner for balance. The person on top decides how fast or slow it goes.
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The bottom partner can lift their hips to meet each movement.
Action
Stand facing each other and hold on tight. Lift one leg around their hip for entry. Use a wall for balance if needed. Move together with small rocks and shifts in weight.
Pro-Tip
Do this after a hot shower when your muscles feel loose. Keep the time short to avoid tired legs.
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Press your entire fronts together while you move.
Action
One partner lies flat on their back. The other straddles facing their feet and lowers down. Move back and forth or in circles. This angle gives different sensations for both of you.
Pro-Tip
Place your hands on their legs for better control and balance. Switch directions to see what feels best.
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Arch your back to adjust the pressure and angle.
Final Tip
These positions help you slow down and pay attention to each other. Try one or two on your next quiet night. Set up ahead of time and tell your partner what feels right. This keeps everything comfortable.
Common Questions
Coconut oil or plain massage oil works best. These feel smooth and last during the activity. Test on your skin first to avoid any bad reactions.
Put down old towels or a sheet before you start. Keep extra towels nearby for quick clean up. Shower together right after to wash everything off.
Oil breaks down latex condoms and makes them unsafe. Use water based lubricant instead if you need condoms. Oil is fine when no condoms are used.
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