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You can set up a quiet evening at home with your partner. Use dim lights and play soft sounds. The eight positions here mix sex with simple massage. Move slowly so your bodies stay relaxed. One person can use their hands on the other's back or legs. A pillow can help with comfort in some spots. Talk about what you like. You do not need to be very flexible. This is a good way to spend time close together without rushing. Choose positions that look easy first.
Action
Both of you lie on your sides facing the same direction. The person in back lines up their body and enters. Keep the thrusts short. The back partner has one hand free to rub the front partner's arm or side.
Pro-Tip
Stack your legs in a comfortable way so your hips line up without strain.
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The front partner can reach back to touch their partner's leg.
Action
One partner lies flat on their back. The other gets on top and faces them. Support yourself with your elbows. You can both use your hands to rub each other's shoulders during the activity.
Pro-Tip
Keep your heads close so you can kiss if you want to.
Spicy Twist
Look at each other while you breathe at the same pace.
Action
The bottom partner lies on their back and raises their hips by bending the knees. The top partner kneels between the legs. Hold the position for a short time then lower. Use a pillow under the hips if needed for support.
Pro-Tip
The top partner should hold the hips to take some of the effort.
Spicy Twist
Rub the thighs of the bottom partner with your thumbs.
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Action
Sit facing your partner with legs wrapped around each other. The woman can lower herself onto the man. Rock your hips together in small motions. Both of you have easy access to the other's back for rubbing.
Pro-Tip
Sit on a firm surface or the bed to keep stable.
Spicy Twist
Hold each other close with arms around the back.
After dark
Action
The woman gets on her hands and knees on the bed. The man gets behind her on his knees. He enters from the back. She can lower to her elbows to make it more comfortable for longer time.
Pro-Tip
Go very slow to keep the focus on relaxation instead of speed.
Spicy Twist
The man can lean forward and kiss her back.
Action
One partner lies face down on the bed with legs slightly apart. The other lies on top and enters from that angle. The weight creates a close feeling. This leaves the top partner able to massage the shoulders.
Pro-Tip
Add a pillow under the bottom partner's chest to raise them a bit.
Spicy Twist
The bottom partner squeezes their legs together for different sensation.
Action
The woman lies on her back near the bed edge. She arches her back slightly by pushing hips up. The man stands or kneels at the edge. This angle needs little movement from her.
Pro-Tip
Use your hands to hold each other for balance.
Spicy Twist
Add a pause every minute to touch slowly.
After dark
Action
The woman lies on her back and puts her legs on the man's shoulders. He holds her legs while he enters. The position is good for short periods. He can rub her legs as he goes.
Pro-Tip
Stop if it feels like too much stretch in the legs.
Spicy Twist
The man can kiss her ankles or feet if she likes it.
Final Tip
Try these positions when you have time to go slow. They work in your regular bed. See which ones you both like and use them again.
Common Questions
Skip the oils or use lotion from the bathroom. Your hands work fine on bare skin too. The touch is what matters most.
Yes they are. They do not need much strength or flexibility. Change the positions until they feel good for your bodies.
Use lamps instead of overhead lights. Turn on quiet music. Make the room warm and remove any mess from around the bed.
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